2006-08-12 11:40:19 · 17 answers · asked by cutiemuni 2 in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body
Everyone's experience is different.
If the guy is patient he will try to make the experience as pain free as possible. You might feel a little discomfort initially but after that it's smooth sailing.
Aw shucks - who am I kidding. Heck yeah it hurts! It hurts a lot!
2006-08-12 11:43:25 · answer #1 · answered by The First Lady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What hurts the most about sex is that you hope it will be the kind of intimacy that brings eternal understanding and love and unfortunately it is temporary. The physical pain for the woman goes away or is less noticable or is simply tolerated, the emotional let down of the experience when compared to understanding or forgiving is an ache that lasts a long time and many just try to hide the ache by having more sex. If the understanding is there to begin with then sex becomes this great way of cherishing the physical, emotional and spiritual being you love enough to share yourself with in this very special way. All in all it makes you want to make sure you are on the same page emotionally and spirtiually with your sex partner before you make such a big decision, doesn't it?
2006-08-12 11:52:36 · answer #2 · answered by Pluto Corsini 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is different for every woman. Typically, it does hurt, but it isn't unbarable. You partner can lessen then the pain if he is patient. Sex can hurt even after you loose your virginity if you are not lubricated. All women produce an oily substance which allows the man to glide easily. The more aroused you are, the easier it will be. The hymen (the membrane that partly closes the entrance into the vagina) stretches and eventually tears during your first intercourse. Its perfectly natural.
2006-08-12 12:13:17 · answer #3 · answered by aerowrite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For a woman, yes, it does. Part of you actually tears when a guy enters you the first time, and that hurts. Not something you want to experience until you're sure the guy is the right one.
2006-08-12 16:08:06 · answer #4 · answered by Miss Dawn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it does hurt. Everyone is different. Some of my friends never bled there first time. Personally I was a bleeder and it was one of the worse pains I remember. Make sure hes the right guy, make it worth it.
2006-08-12 11:48:58 · answer #5 · answered by cinnamonrose427 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does hurt a little but a way to make it less painful is to make sure that your ready like dont just go for it make sure your body is ready . I mean , make sure theres enough foreplay before. It helps some but dont let people scare you into thinking its unbareble.
2006-08-12 11:47:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's uncomfortable if you're female. The male breaks the hymen, and some girls bleed, and it does hurt a little bit. The next time it's not as sore. ~
2006-08-12 11:44:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it does, you'll end up walking funny to after. Don't worry it does get better over time.
2006-08-12 11:45:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Didnt really hurt me at all :P but seriously my wife says no... it was uncomfortable for her but didnt hurt.
2006-08-12 16:11:02 · answer #9 · answered by Lex 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it hurts alot. alot of girls bleed too. make sure this guy is worth it. i am not saying wait until marriage, i am just saying make sure he is really worth such a special gift becasue you can only give that one once.
2006-08-12 13:13:51 · answer #10 · answered by Brooke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋