I slapped her on the face.......! I mean my girlfriend.... may be ex-girlfriend .....wait wait before you rush to any judgements...she slapped me first and a thousands times harder, but not before she broke the windscreen of my beloved Porsche and threatened to kill me. Yes I admit I was "kind of unfaithful" ( kissed another woman), but that does not justify her violence. I think I just lost a fantastic girl.....
2006-08-12 11:34:36 · 20 answers · asked by mystic_speculator 1 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
Are you AKA "The Enlightened"?
2006-08-12 17:13:56 · answer #1 · answered by Doctor ~W. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how big was the kiss? is this a big passionate twoway kiss? or a quick, sneak, oneway kiss? - or a playful kiss? a party kiss? or a torrid kiss?
you chose to be a bit unfaithful - your girlfriend can choose to make a big deal of it, or be cool with it
if the two of you have anything together, the relationship should be strong enough for her to know that you and she have a relationship whether you flirt or not
your girlfriend committed a crime, and you are entitled to have her charged, and to demand and expect full payment for the damage
if you choose to let her off, you are encouraging her and other people to take advantage of being in a relationship to commit crimes against the one they are in relation with and get off scotfree
she ought to feel that she was not entitled to do that and be prepared to pay in full - if she has not this much sense of her duty - especially to one she claims to love - then you can choose to lose her
a thousand times harder? - or twice as hard? - or as hard?
you are morally in the positive if her slap was harder - your error in slapping is subtracted from her slap
so she is ahead in being wrong by the broken windscreen plus the difference between the hardness of her slap and of yours - minus the kiss
extenuating circumstances of the kiss: party, alcohol, everyone loose, social rules down, a little wildness natural at parties
youve got a hothead there - i guess if it turns you on that she is firey, and hits the roof if you are a bit unfaithful, then you will want her - if it bores you that she is like that, and want someone with more cool and sophistication [and less ego], then you can go ahead and have her charged
you are doing her a favour to force her to be a grownup and take responsibility for her actions
it has become a bit of a fashion for women to throw a man's property out the window, or cut up all his suits, or pour paint on his car, as if this was a woman's right -
the fact you ask: do i deserve severe punishment, unless you mean it somewhat jokingly, suggests that maybe you have some desire to be punished in a sexy way - that you want to revisit the erotic dimensions of being punished as a child
if you are asking: how bad is it to slap a woman, with the aforegoing extenuation, it is as bad as the consequences to you
did she break the window after you slapped her, or before? as a result of your slapping her? an important point
she didnt have a choice to commit a crime and not pay for it
2006-08-12 18:27:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would doubt that either one of you is fantastic! Sounds to me like you both need to grow up. How can you be "kind of unfaithful"? Sounds the same as a little bit pregnant to me. And as for this fantastic girl....she slapped; you slapped; she broke the windshield; you kissed another girl; you're violent; she's violent. I hope you didn't lose her; you deserve each other and no one else would want either of you.
2006-08-12 11:44:37 · answer #3 · answered by missingora 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They the two need to be far off from society. in the event that they are nevertheless able to doing injury even from reformatory, they need to die; each and every organism, no rely if a man or woman or a society, has the main suitable to look after itself against terrorists AND psychopaths - if, certainly, there's a difference between the two. i do no longer evaluate such defenses by utilising a society to be "punishment;" I evaluate them to be effects which could logically follow the movements in question. If their movements have been intentional, as contained in relation to a terrorist, then possibly that consequence is justice. If the movements are the fabricated from an irrational techniques, as contained in relation to a psychopath, the consequence is an unlucky necessity, yet a necessity although, in my opinion.
2016-11-04 11:10:47 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Interesting question . . . is it considered a crime for a man to slap a woman but not for a woman to slap a man?
I think it is battery (in the legal definition of the term) either way.
2006-08-12 12:20:14 · answer #5 · answered by mikayla_starstuff 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should never hit a girl , true enough - - but i hear ya, a Porche? the she-devil should be hit. but a dude cant hit her, and try to get back with her, comfort her, if she threatened to kill you.. she cared, so comfort her, apologize, do whatever your instincts tell you. forget your manliness for her, get her back if you want her. and dont listen to anyone that says violence never solved anything. violence is really the only thing that solved anything permanently. ww1 and two for example. nazism was taken out for good. (props to richard jeni for that last part, stand up)
2006-08-12 11:50:36 · answer #6 · answered by Brendan 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Under the circumstances who could blame you. I'm sure your not proud of it, but ...it hasn't been a fun time recently has it really? Never mind at least you can get the windscreen fixed and ...pick up another girl before too long. Chin up and FORWARDS! Good luck and remember, next time don't get caught!
2006-08-12 11:40:43 · answer #7 · answered by Mick H 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you've already received your punishment, not only in that she damaged your car but also because you lost someone you think is "fantastic." Take this as a lesson learned, that if you find someone you think is great, don't cheat on her! Even if she's not that great...don't cheat on her! If anything, cheating is what deserves punishment.
2006-08-12 13:01:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes u deserved the worse, you should have never kissed the other girl. That is far more painful, you can get another porche or get it fixed up but the trust yall had can't be replaced.
2006-08-12 12:11:52 · answer #9 · answered by 20 and lovin' it 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't sound like you lost a fantastic girl at all, sounds like you got out just in time. If she's hitting you and breaking your things, lose her.
You should not have hit her, you know that already, but I think your guilt is probably adequate punishment in this case.
2006-08-12 11:41:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, if you cheated, you deserved the slap. Not the Porsche... that was wrong! But you NEVER slap a lady! Duh! And you deserved it! End it now... I'm sorry about your car... but can I ask if it meant more to you then this woman? Good luck.
♥Miss Darcy♥
2006-08-12 11:54:56 · answer #11 · answered by ~S~ is for Stephanie! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋