2006-08-12 11:23:06 · 10 answers · asked by allisa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
is your friend hot?
2006-08-12 11:28:33 · answer #1 · answered by The Pooh-Stick Kid 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If you are a true friend, you will just deal with it and be happy for her. As long as she doesn't like you in that way and you're still only good friends, what's the big deal? Nothing should change. It doesn't mean she is a bad person because she likes people of the same sex. If you have a problem with it, then, maybe you should just tell her. You aren't a true friend to her. And you will miss out on many friendships because you have something against gay people if you have a problem with her even though you and her are only friends and nothing has changed. If she does have a thing for you, then maybe that's different. Then you just tell her, you can only offer her your friendship, and if she can't accept that, than you can't be friends anymore. But, I don't see what the big deal is here?!?
2006-08-12 11:36:28 · answer #2 · answered by Jenna 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What is wrong with that. I have many Lesbo friends and I am cool with it. If you have a problem with Lesbo... may be you are a Lesbo, but don't want to admit it.
Be her friend... she might need your support or something like that.... Being Lesbo is not a disease....it's a choice of life.
2006-08-12 11:30:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
So what! Obviously you've been friends for the past year and nothing has changed your friendship. Unless you are homophobic, because just because you are friends doesn't mean you have to be lovers. She is still the cool chic you used to hang out with so just treat her like you did before. She really has enough judging around her already so don't judge her also, be a FRIEND!
2006-08-12 11:33:42 · answer #4 · answered by DispatchGirl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, try as best you can to be her friend but also express to her how this makes you feel. But do that in a respectful way. It might be a big shock to learn your friend is a lesbian but you have to think how much you value your friendship. Depending on your beliefs, it may be harder for you to adjust to this new information about your friend. You are not alone. There are websites and ressources available to help guide you.
I have lots of gay and lesbian, even transgendered friends. I'm actually bisexual myself. But to hear "it's ok to be gay" is porbably not enough for you right now. You might feel lost and confused.
Here are a few links that might be helpful to you. Best of luck!!
Gay & Lesbian National Hotline.
http://www.glnh.org/index2.html
GLAAD.
http://www.glaad.org/
2006-08-12 11:40:07 · answer #5 · answered by LadyMisty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think of your possibly bi/lesbian, you the two willingly had intercourse/did sexual issues. yet human beings consistently come and ask in the event that they are gay yet rather purely you are able to answer that query, its as much as you to artwork it out and different than it. Do you have thoughts for you chum? Or is it purely the intercourse which you like? those are the failings you need to ask your self and that way you will understand your sexuality
2016-12-14 04:54:00 · answer #6 · answered by salgueiro 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You let her live her life. Who are you to do anything about her private life? If you are truly her friend, then nothing has to change.
2006-08-12 11:29:16 · answer #7 · answered by shynomore 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be happy for her, and of course, there's the old saying "if you can't beat 'em, join 'em!"
2006-08-12 11:47:53 · answer #8 · answered by happygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were a real friend to her it wouldn't really matter now would it?
2006-08-12 11:29:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'm a lezbo wats wrong with that?
2006-08-12 11:26:42 · answer #10 · answered by the crazy one!!!!!!! 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋