please find out the process of falling in love involves and how long it lasts for most couples.
2006-08-12 11:14:59 · 8 answers · asked by agnes 1 in Education & Reference ➔ Homework Help
That is a simple answer for any one who has been there like me!
I know from experience that if it is true love it dose last for ever but I also need to tell you that most ppl have to really work at a relationship but if it is the right person it should be pretty easy every one has issues and a personallaty you will have to work at the relationship to and make the choice from the begining if you love them then you will work togeather to stay togeather and face all that life dishes out to you working togeather as a team ie the two shall become one you need to think as one talk with each other and be onhonest about ever thing if you are not working togeather like a team or you both seem to be going in oppsite directions then maybe that person is not right for you listen to that inner voice and trist your gut feeling listen to your heart it really dose know best if there is something you can not live with about that person it is most likely not going to change don't try and change some one into what you want if they are not what you want talk about it but if they don't want to change then that is probly not your mate you will know if you listen to your heart if they do say they want to change but they really don't then they really are not going to they will just continue to do the same thing I had two bad relationships trust me I thought I knew the men and I though after beening with them a while they would change for the better but they did not you have to be able to except them the way they are or move on don't expect some one to change for the better it is like wishing apon a star it may or may not come true now on my thrid marriage and the only man I should have ever married at least I can say I have advice that I can share now to help others you should feel something in your heart for the man not just pick a man for looks your will be unhappy turst me to find a good man you need to know them in ever situation how they are going to be be4 you make a dession you should know them at least one year be4 you make any big dessions date one year!!!!if you can not date for a year then you r not meant to be togeather for life!!!!! I would also reccoment after being togeather for a year to go away togeather for at least a weekend that dose not mean you have to sleep togeather but take a trip just to see how you do togeather on a vaction like trip if you can really be togeather that is inportant to see if you are compatible and talk about everything if you both want childern or not jobs future etc talk things out to see if you both have simalur goals inport things to talk about most churches can give you a compatibleity test to see if you are right for each other!!!!
my first relationship was bad lasted 11 months second one bad 20 years but I was lying to myself for the whole 20 years and still kept tring to make it work but I finally got smart thank God........ this relationship going on 24 + years and this one is for life this one is the right guy the only one I should have married I know it 24 years ago It was love at first date but we have know each other for 36 years!!!!!!!!!
sorry my spell check is not working hope everything is spelled right!
2006-08-12 11:17:57 · answer #1 · answered by Mrs. Blue 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The process of falling in love depends on if the two people are into each other equally. He wants her and she wants him. Do they cater to each other emotionally? Are they excited about one another? Does he take her calls or avoid them? Does he make her feel secure? Being in love can last the duration of the relationship if the two people feed into the cycle because the love and excitement grows.
2006-08-12 11:22:45 · answer #2 · answered by cami 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it all depends on the relationship. no one person could ever define love. it is based on every different aspect in the relationship. it has different meanings and never the same. love can take you by surprise and then again you can know it from the start. don't question love. it is what it is. i know a couple what married after 20 mins after they met. and i broke up with my loved one after 6 years. the 20 met marriage is still going strong and it's been 44 years, (my grandparents)......... don't worry or try to define it. it is what ever it is.
2006-08-12 11:24:34 · answer #3 · answered by LouLou 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Da whole ting takes about an hour, see? First he buys you a drink. Next ting you know, yer at da mo-tel whit him. Den da dirty happpens. Ya wash yer hands and be done. A whole affair. Dat's it, kid. One hour and back to da tavern for anodder love affair. Dat's how it is.
2006-08-12 11:19:38 · answer #4 · answered by Johnny P 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
many it comes from the first sight then couble tend to know each other then maybe love. if thier relation is suitable for both of them they will develope it to marriage then they get used to each other and it could last for ever
2006-08-13 08:48:39 · answer #5 · answered by Rachel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no process, or timescale. You just know. And true love should apparantly last forever.
2006-08-12 11:16:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
for me... more than 3 years
2006-08-12 11:17:11 · answer #7 · answered by bunnyBoo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this sure is homework help
2006-08-12 14:36:20 · answer #8 · answered by fabfrenchflamingo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋