But when alone, no girls really stand out. Is it just my bad luck? I really can't keep my eyes off of other beautiful women, and it just seems like a bad joke God is playing on me.
2006-08-12 11:06:33 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
it's because when your own you cant sneak a peak at your girl to compare
2006-08-20 02:27:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that God is playing a bad joke on you, that part might just be your imagination. However, he is reminding you that even though you're taken, you are still human, and you didn't go blind. You're allowed to look, as long as you don't make it obvious in front of your girlfriend or spouse, cuz that's a little disrespectful(but it also depends on how jealous she is, too).I mean, think about how you'd feel if she checked out other guys right in front of you! And maybe-just maybe-if you kept a little more focus on your significant other, you might not feel this way. No matter what, though, be grateful for what you have!
2006-08-20 08:56:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL u remind me of my bf. He can never I mean never stop checking out women. He doesn't even try to hide it now that is funny. I don't know I like it like that cause he's not hiding anything but sometime it does bother me. A little bit. I'm still the girl he holds and the one he comes home to everyday. So whatever he can look that's why he has eyes so he claim as long as it is just looking.
2006-08-19 06:35:00 · answer #3 · answered by Sexy C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear pathetic loser welcome to the real world we all like to look at the green grass on the other side of the fence. But all too often most people don't realize that the only reason the grass is greener is because the **** runs deeper. So stay home and enjoy what you have and be grateful that God gave a slug like you a mate in the first place.
2006-08-12 11:35:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are a male its in you to be that way, thats why men and women start a relationship together, one has to be attracted to the other. You can look but there is a big difference if you are married or involed with someone and your feelings of looking at another woman make you wanna do no no's to the other women . You can look but don't act on it. Don't worry your going to see nice looking woman from time to time, God made us beautiful creatures for you to look at and to love but all you have to do is control yourself because one mistake of acting on attraction is not worth destroying the beautiful women your with. When you act on it it's just the devil trying to destroy your life for a peice of pie. You don't need pie when you have a 3 layered cake at home. Hope I answered your question. please let me know
2006-08-12 12:09:41 · answer #5 · answered by fruitstream 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its OK to notice beauty but buyer beware! Are you trying to compare the woman you are with? Maybe, this is why you see them when your already with a beautiful person. GOD does have a sense of humor... he allows all of us to have temptation... its up to you to reject the negative.
If you care for your mate or don't care for your mate don't start another relationship with someone else until you are done with that relationship... no ones need to get hurt just because of lust.
2006-08-20 06:30:21 · answer #6 · answered by Sterling 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what?? Looking at other people is normal. You can read the menu-but doesn't mean you have to order! It doesn't bother me my husband looks I mean I do too. However there was one time he looked a little toooo hard. He almost walked into a pole at the mall. I told him that was just a little much. We've been married 30 yrs. and have never distrusted him.
2006-08-19 04:54:59 · answer #7 · answered by bsnana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is ur own problem, don't involve the God in this all. Your mind is wavering, make it stable. Just be content with one with ur side. Don't desire to **** or don't dare to handle two women at one time. You can loose both. So first gobble one and then think of another (if you can really handle the situation)...
2006-08-20 01:06:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys try to be the guy they think girls want when they are looking. When we get in a relationship after a time we become comfortable enough to be who we really are. Believe it or not, that is what most women are attracted to and women who are in to you are always hotter than those who aren't in to you.
2006-08-20 04:26:12 · answer #9 · answered by wittmasterjay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The other women may look "hotter" but just tell yourself that they are probably lousy lovers, bad housekeepers and probably wouldn't put up with your crap anyways. By the way, your wife probably looks at hot guys and wishes that they were standing next to her instead of you.
2006-08-20 03:40:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its OK to look but you know, maybe this is a little too obvious to your wife what you are doing and I think its very sad. Did it ever occur to you to let your wife know just how beautiful she is to you?
2006-08-20 02:31:52 · answer #11 · answered by CTMEDS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋