question about gay and lesbians?

Question

If gays hate women and lesbians hate men , then why do gays act like women and most lesbians act like men ?

Answer 1

I'm a lesbian. I don't hate men at all. In fact, I love my male friends and family members. It's just I don't love men romantically and I'm not attracted to them sexually. Nearly all gays and lesbians I know are the same.

I have no desire to be a man or act like a man. I don't know any gays or lesbians that want to be the opposite sex, and know very, very few who try to act as such.

Grow beyond the stereotypes you hold. Your life will be richer.

Answer 2

Wow how ignorant! Firstly most "gays" dont hate women and most lesbians dont hate men! They are simply not attracted to them. Secondly most "gays" do not act like women and most lesbians do not act like men! A minority do and these are the ones that stick out and you then associate with homosexuality. Stop seeing people in terms of negative stereotypes that have little to do with reality!

Answer 3

That's the point, gay men don't "hate" women and lesbians don't "hate" men. They are simply attracted to someone of their own gender instead of someone of the opposite gender. All gay men don't act like women, odds are you know alot of gay men and don't even know that they are gay. The same goes for lesbians.

Answer 4

It isn't like that. To make judgements like that about an entire group of people just shows how ignorant you are. I am sure that some gays hate women and some lesbians hate men, but you can not base your judgement on the opinions of just a few people.

Answer 5

Gay men don't hate women. They're just not romantically attracted to them. Do straight women HATE other women? That's stupid.
Furthermore, believe it or not, the gay caricatures you see on tv aren't the only gay people in the world. You only see what you expect to see.

And, I didn't even get into why you think that a given set of traits is "masculine" or "feminine".

Answer 6

I'm a gay man....trust me on this one....Gay men do not hate women....lesbians do not hate men.period...where did you ever get that idea?
gay men do not want to be women: lesbians do not want to be men..this is really pretty simple.. you do the math.

Answer 7

First off, with a name like buckwheat, I wouldn't throw stereotypes around so easily.

I don't know what gays or lesbians you know or have met but I can assure you most are not as you described, to be sure some are, just like some blacks are crooks, some asians are shifty and some jews may be whiny. The point being, don't be so quick to label or generalize because that tends to come back and bite you in the rear.

Answer 8

First of all, I'm a gay man and I don't hate women. I just don't want to have sex with them. Second, I don't act like a woman. I've had many lesbian friends, which proves they are not required to hate men to be lesbians, and many of them are quite feminine. Grow up, Buckweat, and quit stereotyping.

Answer 9

Where do you get this stuff. Let me start at the top:

"If gays hate women." We don't.
"and lesbians hate men" The don't
"why do gays act like women" We don't
"and most lesbians act like men?" They don't.

So if both of your "if" statements are false, and both of your "then" statement are false, how could anyone answer your question?

Answer 10

I'm so sorry, but you are generalizing here. Do you have proofs or evidence that gay guys hate women. I love women, women are my best friends. They are great shopping buddies and fun to hang out with. Have u ever been to a gay bar? Do you know how many women are there.... A lot... and have you heard of the term, "faghag" . Gay men love women, and vice versa