I'm a lesbian, and I keep having this dream about having sex with this one guy. I know him, and I see him everyday. Every time I wake up, I'm completely grossed out (I have been with men before, and I do not like it) but I keep having this reoccurring dream. Sometimes the scenario changes, but it always ends with me and this guy having sex. How can I not have this dream? Or is it normal and something I should disregard?
2006-08-12 10:42:43 · 18 answers · asked by Agent Double EL 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Ew, I don't want to be with him. First of all, he's one of my teachers, so it's completely unethical, and secondly, I can't stand him because he's a total and complete jerk.
2006-08-12 10:47:48 · update #1
From a dream dictionary: you want/need to communicate with this person on an intimate level.
my interpretation is the same as the dream dictionary but i would like to add perhaps you are attracted to him? Wanting to have sex with someone does not mean you are atrracted to him physically but more on an emotional/personality level.
It's not gross to feel this way about teachers. after all teachers are meant to enjoy being around students.
How do you avoid having this dream?
It is possible to control any dreams but i feel you need to be aware of what's happening in
your sub conscious mind. How you become aware of your subcon mind is knowing your true self and how you will react to different situations. There are many ways to knowing yourself but this takes time or if you are really unlucky to be stuck in a situation of experiencing immerse physical suffering then your true self will be there.
2006-08-12 11:58:30 · answer #1 · answered by Langdon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u have a problem with authority and in particular this person. Since this guy is your teacher and u don't like him at all, u deal with this dislike of him in your dream - in the form of sex. Don't worry, it's completely normal. Dreams have a way of confronting issues that we don't confront when we're awake. That's what our subconscious minds do and basically what dreams are in some cases. Also, as the others have said here, having sex w/ him in your dream doesn't mean u wanna have sex w/ him in real life... As I've said, it's just a way of resolving your hatred of him. Once u don't see him anymore or your dislike toward him subsides, perhaps u won't dream of him anymore. Just take it easy and maybe think of something pleasant and happy b4 u go to sleep... Pleasant and sweet dreams grrl. ;o)
2006-08-12 18:53:28 · answer #2 · answered by mags 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think of prophetic desires would have a style of readability in the back of them, yet on your dream the boss seems to be a mirrored image of your male section, the questioning, governing section, interior the certainty he's the boss, there is likewise a coaching that think ofyou've have been given to allow the brave male section have greater expression on your on an generic basis existence.
2016-11-04 11:05:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A French philosopher named Freud believed dreams to be the fullfillment of life
Perhaps it's not having sex with a guy that you want maybe it's "normalness" and "traditionality" what you want. And perhaps you just want to be accepted like a straight person. Sex in dreams does not always mean sex perhaps you want something else.
2006-08-12 10:49:13 · answer #4 · answered by Alesig 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think there is some aspect of your non-sexual relationship with this guy that needs to be resolved and so you end up trying to resolve it sexually in your dream. Dreams tend to be more sexual than real life...go figure.
So what do you need to do to set your relationship right with this guy at work or wherever it is you see him? Whether you need to apologize for something, tell him off, or just have a long chat about differences, once you resolve what's out of balance in your daytime life with him, he won't come to your bed in your dream.
2006-08-12 12:13:36 · answer #5 · answered by michael941260 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sexual dreams are often not about sex at all. I kind of see where you like this guy, deep down, there's something about him that you admire, that is not sexual at all, and you want to be close to him, but only in a friendly way. I think it's more about him accepting you than you wanting him for sexual purposes.
2006-08-12 12:27:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having sex in a dream doesn't mean you really want to have sex with him,lol. Perhaps you feel that someone,not necessarily him,is making you do something disgusting that you really don't want to do. All dreams are is our subconscious,unless you're psychic,and that's another story,lol
2006-08-12 12:12:02 · answer #7 · answered by dragonfly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dream is just a fruit of your deep sleep; you can dream anything but don't be bother with it; sometimes you dream a thing that you had been thinking that day before you sleep............. based on my personal experience: I liked this guy a lot and been thinking of him all the time and several nights I dream of him having sex with me..... yuckssssss!!! i think it's weird eventhough i like him.
2006-08-12 10:50:51 · answer #8 · answered by whitesilk 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dreams arise from your subconscious mind...so your dreams are really telling you your inner most desires....i mean that how i ended up with my soul m8...i just had a dream abt him and decided to see what happens...just try it out with him maybe itll work....theres nothing to get worked up about
2006-08-12 10:47:46 · answer #9 · answered by alle 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sex in dreams doesn't usualy mean sex. try looking in a dream book
2006-08-12 10:45:18 · answer #10 · answered by cookie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋