I am a mother of 2 teen guys one is 13 and the other one is 15. Today I left to go to the store for about 15mins when I was gone I came back and I saw both of them downstars sitting in our cinima chairs masturbating. Should I put a stop to it of not? they don't know i know. I don't have a problem with them being naked but I'm not sure about them masturbating. Should I put a stop to being naked also?
2006-08-12 10:42:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
leave them alone. it is totaly natural. you will not put a stop to it, you will only hurt your relationship with them. when i was early teens, me and my friends would all get together and do it. no one touched anyone else or anthing. and we all have girlfriends now. go up to your bedroom and get out your toys and close the door. you will have a big happy family
WHY ARE FEMALES answering this question. you obviously are steering her in the wrong direction with answers you know nothing about. go answer a question on pregnancy... geeze
2006-08-12 10:50:49 · answer #1 · answered by lc_firefighter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1 There is nothing wrong with masturbating, it even prevents a cancer.
2 Let them. It feels good.
3 I don't know about naked. Depends on how they live and if your house is clean and warm or not.
4 Why the he*l is this in pregnancy?
2006-08-12 17:49:13 · answer #2 · answered by JustAnuddaKid 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Poor thing, you had to sign up for answers to ease your mind. So let me get this straight again, now. You don't mind them being NAKED? But the masturbating worries you. Hmmm. Interesting. Well, I'd say if you're cool with the nudity, you'd be cool with being truthful with them and saying, "Hey guys, I think it is time we had a little talk about sexuality and personal satisfaction. You don't have to respond, but I want you to know how I feel about it. Actually I'm not sure how I feel about it, but most people think it is pretty normal, so don't feel ashamed, but please out of respect for our home, one another and most of all ME, your MOM, please be DISCREET. Got it guys? Good. Okay! What's showing in the cinema, now? I mean, what's UP!? Want some popcorn?"
See, Mom. That was easy, right? Right.
2006-08-12 17:55:01 · answer #3 · answered by Sleek 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'm 13 and I do it let them be guys its just what we do I sit in my chair every night and masturbate and I love to be naked
2006-08-12 17:50:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Were they doing it together? There could be more to it than what you think. If they are doing that they are more than likely involved in other things as well, I would suggest you sit down and have a talk with each one of them individually.
Secondly, if you think that they were doing anything together they need professional help, and I'm not saying this to scare you, but catch it before something happens if this is the case.
2006-08-12 17:46:15 · answer #5 · answered by Kay Eliz 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Boys will be boys, its what guys do, we have to to stay sane, I think the idea can be disturbing for ladies but thats how guys are. Try not to think about it, put it out of your mind, they'd be horrendously embarassed if they knew you had seen. You could bring it up to then 20 years from now and they'd still be embarassed.
2006-08-12 17:49:03 · answer #6 · answered by jxt299 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If they were doing out in the open together you need to talk to them ASAP!Masturbating is normal but a group one is questionable. Are they not comfortable to do it by themselves.
2006-08-12 18:06:42 · answer #7 · answered by Jeffiner 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
that is a little young i would talk to them get help or something b/c that will lead to other things like getting a girl pregnat
2006-08-12 17:52:42 · answer #8 · answered by A soldiers wife 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋