When people are disrespectful or when the have poor manners I want to kill them. They do not have to be this way towards me. If I hear them being that way towards another person I still want to whack them. I will usually give people lesson in manners when I hear them acting mean. I have never hurt a person but I am scared one day I may. What should I do?
2006-08-12 09:51:18 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
There is an entire sub culture in America that preys on good people and I am sick of it!
2006-08-12 09:56:04 · update #1
So basically once again us good people, hardworking tax payers, must capitulate to the a holes? So the jerk can say what he wants and do what he wants but I must always be nice and Ned Flanders like?
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2006-08-12 10:09:23 · update #2
It's a natural reaction, but not much appreciated in the US, so better suppressed. ;-)
Here only the government wants the right to kill people... and they do all the time
2006-08-12 09:53:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You need to enroll in an anger management class. It also might help to develop a thicker skin. I do not mean this as an insult. People sometimes don't mean to offend, but they do. They have no idea sometimes what may offend you because they are not in your head. Obviously offensive statements should be calmly challenged or ignored.
You need to know that it takes all kinds to make our world. It would be lovely if everyone played nice and fair; but many people have been raised (or are being raised) in dysfunctional environments. They simply don't know any better. If you don't learn to curb your temper you may someday raise children who also have anger problems and other dysfunctional behaviors.
Please talk to a counselor, family doctor or other professional about this problem before it leads to trouble for you.
2006-08-12 09:58:55 · answer #2 · answered by Chris 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Murder is not really good manners, my man.
The answer to your "why" question is difficult to answer. It has to do with your unresolved inner resentments, values, injuries, and the like. You want to kill because you have not worked through your own personal rage.
What you should do is find a *competent* therapist and also learn anger management. A competent therapist can assist you in working through your rage in a safe, productive way. An anger management coach can teach you how not to act out of your murderous impulses.
Another thing is to just realize that people are people, and their manners or lack thereof aren't really that important to the health of your own mind, heart, and soul. If you are giving other people that kind of power over your inner life, you are in for a whole world of hurt. Learn to understand that people are oftentimes infuriating, unjust, dismissive, cruel, unmannerly, and all the other things that people can be.
Also come to understand your own powerlessness over everybody else...but understand that you have the power to change exactly one person in this world: yourself.
2006-08-12 09:56:18 · answer #3 · answered by Gestalt 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would go talk to a professional. Try and keep yourself surrounded by people that are nice and upbeat. Remove youself from a situation when you feel like you are starting to get that feeling. It's up to all of us to keep our lives running as smoothly as possible. It's very hard when it's family. Even with family, if being around them upsets you, just don't go there! Good Luck!
2006-08-12 10:01:00 · answer #4 · answered by BGS 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go exercise - it will relieve some stress - either that, or seek some type of counseling, just telling someone about your feelings can help you find the root of your anger. People are always going to be disrespectful - you will just have to find a way to deal with people's idiotic manners. Good luck :)
2006-08-12 09:54:55 · answer #5 · answered by flygrrl 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I know what you mean sometimes I want to kick someones a** for being so rude! But, you can't go in life kicking ppl's a** because if not you would be in jail all the time. Since this world is FULL of mean ppl.
2006-08-12 09:55:53 · answer #6 · answered by ME 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If this is a serious question then you know what you need to do, GET PROFESSIONAL HELP FAST. And you should not listen advice from sources here!!!
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2006-08-12 09:59:06 · answer #7 · answered by cjmeamts 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to learn to manage your anger. You have a streak of justice enforcer in you. You could either help the world by learning to control it and finding a proper outlet...or you could just let it fester and end up some shmuck vigilante in prison who had good intentions but no emotional grounding.
2006-08-12 09:55:19 · answer #8 · answered by Jaded Ruby 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Welcome to the human race. Murder is the end result of hatred. Cain killed Abel because of jealousy and hated Abel in his heart. This suddenly makes sense when Jesus said to hate your brother in your heart is the same as murder. It also proves that the heart of mankind is evil and that man needs a heart transplant.
2006-08-12 09:58:05 · answer #9 · answered by parepidemos_00 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's completely normal. All I can suggest is that u kill ur pillow or go outside and squash bugs until u r satisfied.
2006-08-12 09:55:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
it's normal to feel that way ,cause i feel that way at times,but don't do it,cause u'll get locked up for it,u'll never see light again,it's just anger,but all i dois just walk away b4 i do something stupid,drink some water,watch some t.v and just feel relieved,think about ur future.good luck
2006-08-12 09:55:00 · answer #11 · answered by BeGood. 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋