it's hard because he's really sweet but sometimes he gets on my nerves
2006-08-12 09:38:07 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well I'm sorry to tell you, but it's just not going to happen. When you break up with him; it will hurt his feelings. It's unfortunate since you think he's a good guy. That's the way it has to be though. All you can do is be as nice to him as possible about it. Explain to him that you think he's great, but that you simply don't feel that the two of you as a couple work out. Good luck to you both.
2006-08-12 09:41:22 · answer #1 · answered by Olivia B 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all stop and make sure this is what u really want .. so he gets on ur nerves sometimes every one does sometime or other im sure u get on his too.. if u r 100% sure this is what u want well then...there is no way to break up w someone w/out hurting their feelings.. just be gentle and do it the same way u would want it done to u...
2006-08-12 16:42:57 · answer #2 · answered by wildspirit1313 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do you care
you want out
just do it
don't think you be friends either
immature guys take it very personal when they get dumped
so in effect it's a good thing you are going to do what you are going to do
a man will be cool about being dumped as he kows he can always find another women
lil boys and what not are the opposite
2006-08-12 16:41:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry! even you want to dump in explicted or implicted way , his feelings will be hurt. Human are quite sensitive that we don't bother to tell brutally to them.
Simply way, it is tell the truth how you feel and want you in the future. He will know how you feel even though it might hurt feeling. It is impossible to not hurt someone feelings when he is dumped by you. Soon and later, he might find out your scheme.
Also, tell him to you want to be just friends!
2006-08-12 17:08:32 · answer #4 · answered by Ritsuko 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him this is not what you want right now in your life. Offer no other excuses, leave it at that and if you don't want to remain friends with him, don't mention a friendship. Sometimes it best to make a clean cut.
2006-08-12 17:01:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no way to do it without hurting his feelings. BTW - everyone will sometimes get on your nerves - so there is no perfect relationship.
2006-08-12 16:41:58 · answer #6 · answered by Catspaw 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no matter what u do, he will be hurt but the best way to do it is in person and explain to him y u r doing this and give him a goodbye kiss and tell him u still wanna be friends and that it isnt him, but u.
2006-08-16 17:02:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not dump him yet.. you better talk about it firt..tell him about your feelings.. i think you just need to be transparent ot your boyfriend.. donthide anythin from him.. if you now come to the point of bein tired of your relationship, then tell it straight to his face so it wouldnt be unfair for him ( esp)..
2006-08-12 16:47:48 · answer #8 · answered by real_chic00 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well tell him you don't think it will work out but you still want to be his friend and a pointer boy are always going to be annoying
2006-08-12 16:57:07 · answer #9 · answered by morgan b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe say i think we should just be freinds
Good Luck
2006-08-12 16:41:20 · answer #10 · answered by Sunshine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋