And if so, how would you compare it with and without feelings attached?
2006-08-12 09:36:26 · 30 answers · asked by stringemuphigh 3 in Social Science ➔ Sociology
Ok, to clarify....not prostitution....I mean sex, and enjoying it.
2006-08-12 09:42:05 · update #1
Yes both men & women can have sex and not be emotionally attached. Reality for me there is no such thing as bad sex, feelings or not. Even with nymphos, love makes sex more meaningful.
2006-08-12 10:03:28 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Yes, it is not only possible it happens alot. And boo to the girls that say only for prostitutes and stupid crap like that. Anyways, yes i know friends of mine that sleep with certain guys without any expectations of anything. There are sometimes guys you know you are not interested in but find very attractive. I personally dont do this but i may have in highschool or something silly. I also know there are times I have slept with an X or something and didnt really give a shite.
Emotional sex and physical sex are both good just different. I dont think you ever have sex without feelings at all, it's just wich ones, love or lust?
2006-08-12 09:43:32 · answer #2 · answered by serpy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, its possible and very normal ( I personaly don't belive these girls here saying otherwise...). Compare it .... hm, without feelings is I guess the same way like for you guys - just a physical need; to release stress; etc. , with feelings IS different, it's act of love, not gonna deny that. But you can have great pleasure from both that's for sure.
2006-08-12 09:48:03 · answer #3 · answered by aaja 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Obviously men are not the only ones who can ,but the real question is why do they not get the bad reps. as women do in these matters.I compare that to a tire and a flat tire.The man is the fully inflated tire while the woman is the spare.
2006-08-12 12:53:57 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've had sex without feelings attached...
Let me say that it wasn't half as fulfilling or GOOD as sex with someone that I deeply care for. It's awkward to have sex with someone you don't care about or aren't really comfortable with. They don't really know what you like or dislike. Also, the aftermath is kind of weird...with someone you love, you like to cuddle and talk, but w/someone you don't love, you just feel like getting up and leaving.
I would much rather have sex with someone I love!
2006-08-12 09:40:54 · answer #5 · answered by cutiewithabooooty 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm a man and I've never had sex feeling all numb. If *feelings* refer to more serious stuff, like wanting to get married, ok. But guess everybody feels SOMETHING when having sex or we wouldn't bother.
2006-08-12 09:41:03 · answer #6 · answered by Paul 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I dont believe that men can , they have to feel a little something . Unless they coach themselves to be unattacthed and if thats the case , then that would be the same way girls do it . Yes, some girls are like that , but I prefer to be natural about my feelings.
2006-08-12 09:41:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh, yes. I have before. I mean, you care enough to not want to see them get hit by a bus or something, but that's about it. Sex that way was very unfulfilling for me. Now that I am married to someone I love, it is much, much better with feelings involved.
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2016-10-02 00:08:09 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, it is. Sex and love are too different things. In an ideal world sex would only happen if there was love but it isn't an ideal world and people are doing it without love as you read this answer.
2006-08-12 09:44:05 · answer #10 · answered by kukkeeme 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋