Well...Right now..not too good shape..My friend tells me that she isn't going to this party yesterday...and tells me that we are going to hang out today...well she doesn't call..so I text her...she tells me that she went to the party...and today...she is going to one of her friends cottage for the day..Keep in mind we were going to hang out..and she lied to me yesterday..So..I drove home...in a car that isn't working well...and I am spending another weekend doing nothing..What doesn't she want me to hang with all of them..is there something wrong with me..? When I get like this..I just think..I should end it...right now...no one would miss me...No one would care if I wasn't around..I have nothing to lose...
This week I have been yelled at twice...and I have been lied to twice..I have no one to turn to..and when I do...I really don't think anyone cares...
2006-08-12 08:39:52 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
The thing is she wants to hang out tomorrow..While..knowing that she is hanging out with the guy whom I really like...and won't invite me...she gets invited..and breaks plans with me...should I hang out with her tomorrow...?
2006-08-12 08:46:35 · update #1
No way... your friend just sounds horrible.
It sounds like you're insecure. But honestly don't worry, a lot of people have this problem and feel lonely because of it. But you can change, and things can get better for you. People will love you and be there for you. Don't be hopeless about the future, because I think you are so worth it. So what if they don't notice that now?- they will someday.
I also felt the same way as you once, this is how I know. You won't feel like this forever, and your life will get better, trust me!
I really recommend the book "Changes that Heal" by Dr Henry Cloud - you can get it off Amazon -it's a really good book that I think would help you.
Take care.
2006-08-12 08:45:37 · answer #1 · answered by Cina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey things WILL get better,things WONT always be like this.I know how hard that is to believe but trust me ending it all is NOT the answer.Have you ever thought of seeing a doctor or someone to talk to about these things?I know the idea of a psychiatrist is kind of scary but I have known people with great results from it.Please dont do anything rash,thats just not the answer and believe me suicide impacts people more then people who kill themselves realize,I had a friend in high school kill himself instead of seeking help and it devastated us all very deeply,he didnt tell anyone about the pain he was feeling and ran his car into a brick wall going 90 miles per hour.It still hurts me to talk about it.
2006-08-12 08:44:56 · answer #2 · answered by Sweetie1204 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea....well, do you want some cheese with that whine? Get yourself some NEW friends....get up off of your selfish behind and go see some really needy folks, like children in cancer wards; be a volunteer and stop feeling sorry for yourself. Suicide is the ultimate in selfishness. You have to care about yourself before you can expect others to care about you. If you whine that much, no wonder you're having problems!
2006-08-12 08:44:15 · answer #3 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends treat each other with respect. I do not believe she is really a good friend or she would not act like she is only out for herself. Please remember that this problem will fade in time and not seem so important. Everyone has bad days and good days. Try making friends outside of your current circle of friends, then their snubs will not seem like a big deal. Remember that friends who are cruel are not friends. You deserve better.
2006-08-12 08:55:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
look dont end it all i have to say is that u should make her feel bad for what she ahs done to you make her feel nasty from insied and outside go out and get a new fried a guy and make suer his really cute go ever were with him but only go to places you know ur friend will be and before you know it she probably be coming to yoou asking for his name thats when you tell her to buzz of and go meet her fried ecaes apparently she has fog otten about u .and sweety no one will fortget about you i surly will remenmber u if you need some one to talk to email me
2006-08-12 08:46:59 · answer #5 · answered by blessing m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course people still care about you!! please dont give up! just because you had a crappy friend doesnt mean the world has turned its back on you. try meeting new people in you classes or after school activities. its may seem hard to make new friends but its important that you do
2006-08-12 08:43:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
evry one cares about u!!! no one would want u to end it!!!
tell some one maybe one of ur freinds. and u should try to talk to some one like a psychatrist abd just talk and ask for help!!
2006-08-12 08:45:39 · answer #7 · answered by kagome 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋