Me and wife been talking about having a 3 way with another man, no nothing gay, just pleasing her..Have any of you done this or at least thought of it ?Did it live up to what you thought it would?
2006-08-12 08:17:40 · 20 answers · asked by Uh-huh 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Definitely do it. When it comes down to it it's all about her and she'll love you for it. Yes I did it and I'll never forget it.
2006-08-12 08:27:45 · answer #1 · answered by flutterby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
brutal honesty and very personal...i've had a non-homosexual threesome with me and 2 guys. to any of the ladies out there who think it will be cool or fun...WRONG! not that i really ever desired something like that, but it's akward. the non-homosexual men who don't want to touch or the thought of touching is "gross" well guess what, aside from the power H you will touch. and quite frankly 2 men who don't care about if the woman got pleased is worse than one. so as long as you and her both realize you may not even enjoy this (by no fault of anyones really) go for it. but i hope you realize since she wants this if it doesn't go like she wants you may be held accountable because you didn't try or because you weren't relaxed etc (i can't imagine you'd be that comfortable as a non-homosexual with another nakie man that close to you in sexual positions.). i hope all goes well, good luck!
2006-08-12 08:26:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it! Most people find it is nothing like they thought it was going to be and then it causes issues in the future between the married couple. Leave it as a fantasy, that is what my husband and I do.
2006-08-12 09:07:49 · answer #3 · answered by ladysteelersince1976 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have not tried this, and I don't think you should either. Once you take that step there is no turning back to what you had. You could end up losing her to someone else.
Take your marriage vows seriously. Only the two of you together. Don't bring an outside influence into your marriage.
2006-08-12 08:25:03 · answer #4 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it. Then maybe one day she will return the favor and have a 3 way with you and another lady. Have fun and enjoy life.
2006-08-12 08:36:28 · answer #5 · answered by sexyladyinak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol
don't worry, relax.
if your wife wants another man, then by all means go for it!
as a guy you should be open to many sexual activities, expirementation's and such.
just invite the guy over some day. leave him in the room with your wife alone, let her seduce him, then come back in the room and join where they left off.
idk, i'm only 15. but hell i'd do it in a heartbeat!
2006-08-12 08:21:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Haven't done this,but have friends that have.Remember trust is a big factor here.Fantasies are great to have,sometimes taking it to the next level can be harmful to the relationship.I'm not saying don't do it,just use caution.â¥
2006-08-12 08:24:44 · answer #7 · answered by bamahotT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think some fantasies should stay fantasies. something like this you cant take back. you have to decide do i want to share my wife, will she want to continue this behavior, how will i feel knowing that another man is pleasing her, what if she wants to continue and i dont, what if we get and STD?
this issue is more than a sexual desire and can lead to some much more if it is fulfilled and not just a fantasy anymore..gl
2006-08-12 08:21:59 · answer #8 · answered by porsha226 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if your wife wants another man to expierment with theres is a problem. Thats not right for you. and it very well can effect your marriage. Dont do it. Thats not right specially for you
2006-08-12 08:41:40 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it !! You will never get the image of her with another out of your head and it will be bad in the long run.
2006-08-12 08:20:08 · answer #10 · answered by konfusedkathy2006 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋