2006-08-12 08:15:02 · 16 answers · asked by PAUL J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Because there's nothing you can do about it.
I think it's something in the cake!
2006-08-12 08:20:54 · answer #1 · answered by 'Dr Greene' 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you remember all the hours you put into showing your wife affection,, before you married her? All the conversation, presents, little notes, phone calls etc? I bet a lot of that stopped when you married her. Start all that again and wait and see if the sex life comes back. If women don't understand a man's need for sex, men don't understand a woman's need for affection and conversation.
2006-08-12 09:38:03 · answer #2 · answered by good tree 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife has been off of sex from the first week. Still been with her over 20+ years. Life has been miserable. Good luck.
2006-08-12 08:47:34 · answer #3 · answered by Eddy G 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because you re seeing 'women' as a group instead of loving your wife as an individual with her own wants, needs, desires, dreams.
Try nuturing those instead and romancing her again instead of taking her for granted.
2006-08-13 07:35:46 · answer #4 · answered by Leapling 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think its everyone, although people often joke about it. I am on my second marriage and i have found it has affected my libido at all. If anything my "personal" life has improved as you become more relaxed and in tune with each other.
2006-08-12 09:11:02 · answer #5 · answered by tanya h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most don't. You need to work on this. Maybe you forgot how to be more like you were before you were married.
2006-08-12 08:23:39 · answer #6 · answered by Mit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Paul try romancing her. not anything elegant, just get her weak spot. Message her back do something before you get in her.
because if you just go fo the kill then its just sex not making LOVE. and make it interesting. Good luck P.S. make sure she comes first too.
2006-08-12 08:54:01 · answer #7 · answered by dori_619 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
women don't..its men who start treatin women differently after they get married .everything changes especially when children come along.
2006-08-16 02:53:23 · answer #8 · answered by bren 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have been with my partner for 12 years and the more attention he pays to me the more i want to have sex with him seriously you have probably changed as well in her eyes.
2006-08-12 12:45:11 · answer #9 · answered by karen333342 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because probably in your case she wanted something and got it.
In my case I fed my clam to the Lions
2006-08-16 02:54:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋