Why is it that some men do not like or seem to be interested in sex?
I mean almost every man that I know, would never turn down sex, EVER, so what about the ones that do, What is up with that? Please I would really like to know, some good answers!
2006-08-12 08:11:16 · 16 answers · asked by iLoveDawnDawn 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sorry, I forgot to say that we have been together for 5 years and been married for 2 years! The first few years were fantastic, but the last few, less than wonderful! Now, What do you think?
2006-08-12 09:06:57 · update #1
kill him lol, no really he is not cheating on you. he is not on drugs! he has stress and things between you have been rocky lately. to be honest it is going to take you and him to sit down over time and figure things out. marriage is hard work but if you both love each other you can work through this little bump. please dont listen to some of these answers. when you least exspect it you will find your answer.
2006-08-13 06:48:30 · answer #1 · answered by ? 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That would be my husband. Sex just isn't as important to some people. My husband is an intellectual, very smart guy, and he's more into intellectual stimulation than physical. Which means that things like physical affection and sex are low on the totem pole to him. And the first things to get overlooked. It's taken me ten years to get this man to understand that being physically close to him important to me. So he's trying more these days. Which only means that I get more physical affection from him. lol As far as sex goes...a really good vibrator is a girl's best friend. ;)
2006-08-12 08:26:06 · answer #2 · answered by I'm just me 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
some men really understand the value of making love and they respect that.
all women should really feel honored when a man wants to be with them and not just have sex.
men honor their God and bodies just like women do. men are virgins too. they want to want for the right woman and honestly say i havent been with any other women. for some reason like AIDS and unwanted pregnacies men choose not to have sex.
2006-08-12 08:28:56 · answer #3 · answered by porsha226 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I turn down sex if I an not attracted to her. Too tired, stressed out and just had it 5 minutes ago. Every now again she will say something that I really don't want to hear i.e. Her issues with period, etc, etc.
2006-08-12 08:24:35 · answer #4 · answered by roydono 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Have you tried finding out from the source (that is, himself)?
In addition to what everyone has said so far, another possibility is that it might be against his values and beliefs.
I still think the best way to solve this is to stop guessing, risking misinterpreting the guy, and focus on exercising communication and somehow (depending on what your relationship with him is like) have him answer you by himself.
2006-08-12 08:28:40 · answer #5 · answered by Hor-heh 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I had this problem in my marriage. Six years of him not being interested. I finally talked to his doctor and had her test his blood for testosterone. His levels were very low.
He did not want Viagra or any other drug. He did not want hormone treatment. He did not want sex. He had absolutely no desires of any kind. (we are now divorced)
2006-08-12 08:28:09 · answer #6 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe u should try a new approach and i hate to say this but some times (not all of the times though) they dont want sex with u cause thier gettin it from someone else. sorry but i had to say it!! but its not true all the time!! he could just be to tired or stressed or something
2006-08-12 08:25:40 · answer #7 · answered by kagome 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
who knows iam not one of them .i would not turn down sex(making love).but I know a person that does.my opinion is that hard day at work and trying to unwind.or just sexed out form getting to to much.
2006-08-12 08:16:09 · answer #8 · answered by travellinghotty 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well,
i can'y speak for anybody else, but I would say that maybe your doin somthin that may not be sexy to him. Or you might have said or done somethin to make him reject you. Or, most of all, he might be scared of havin sex, especially when he hasn't done it before. If he has then i don't know.
One is glad to be of service!
2006-08-12 08:16:30 · answer #9 · answered by indiankid14 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he is having an affair. He does not want to cheat on his girlfriend, but he still does not want to divorce you because chances on him supporting you if very high. See a divorce lawyer and set the ball in motion.
2006-08-12 20:53:37 · answer #10 · answered by crafty 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋