i used to get good grades, and would never do anything wrong. but now i started smoking, i peirced my ears by myself, i am being mean to everyone and i am just not myself. i am 13 yrs. old.
why am i being like this??
2006-08-12 07:55:19 · 10 answers · asked by RebelChild69 3 in Health ➔ Women's Health
you are crying out for help from your mom and dad, talk to them tell them you need them in your life. and to tell you the thing you can and can not do. seems to me you dont think you are loved, i use to be the same way and it was because i could always do anything and go anywhere and mom and dad just didn't care. now looking back at it i would have love to hear NO you can't GO are dont do that, try to chang this within yourself because as you get older you will wish you had.if it's attention you're looking join a big brother or big sisters group.in most situations like this you have to be a leader dont let your firends tell you what to do.i belive you are a very headstrong lit person.
2006-08-12 08:39:47 · answer #1 · answered by Kas-O 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's call rebelious teen syndrome.
You just don't feel that people understand you and you are going through a confusing time in your life. Your hormones are changing and you are becoming a young woman. You want a challenge but nothing seems to be right for you. It is understandable, you should seek out some help through a guidence counselor.
It is normal but you don't want to fall too deep. You should stop smoking and start to realize your being mean to others, just think if the situation was reversed.
Good luck!!
2006-08-12 15:34:47 · answer #2 · answered by slickkittykattwhopurs 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have two nieces that are close to your age. as much as i hate saying it's a "phase", i really think it is. plus, you're going through puberty which can throw you off temporarily (but don't use that as an excuse). i even went through a "phase" just like that when i was your age. you're at a point where you want to fit in with everyone else. you want to be accepted and liked; sometimes it's hard to admit. most of the time, it's who you hang around with that explains why you do the things you do. right now, your peers are most influential on you. just remember, there is only one "you". it's better to be yourself and be accepted and liked for who you really are. sure, you're gonna try experiencing new things as you are growing up... just don't lose yourself in it. you're only 13 and you have your whole life ahead of you.
i am assuming you're in the 8th grade. if that is true, keep this in mind: you still have 4 more years of school left (and college, that i hope you will pursue) and more than likely you will be surrounded with "everyone" you're with now down the road as well. just respect yourself, respect others and be RESPONSIBLE for your actions.
also, stop smoking... it's disgusting, bad for your health, can become habitual and literally stinks! it's soooo not cool.
2006-08-12 15:24:14 · answer #3 · answered by charwants2know 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Puberty. And, this is the time you begin to learn the value of making good judgments and of the need to be yourself, regardless of what's popular.
Hold firm to your values and use good judgment. It's a tough time for everyone at that age. Just not a lot of others will admit that they're having a hard time or are confused.
2006-08-12 15:02:44 · answer #4 · answered by kids and cats 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're starting your teen years, going through puberty and having to deal with a lot of changes. Maybe you are trying to assert your independence since you're growing up. It's just a phase and as you get older you'll grow out of it. Maybe you should get a mentor or someone you trust who's older to talk to about how you're feeling and what you're going through. Hang in there, things will get better.
2006-08-12 15:13:54 · answer #5 · answered by Nico 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry. im 24 now and i was horrible when i was 13, when just the year prior i was getting good grades and doing everything "right". i still apologize to my mom for that period in my life. that's amazing that you are aware of it. but it will pass.
2006-08-12 15:01:44 · answer #6 · answered by honey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd like to talk to you about this, if you feel like you can contact me.
I think you are getting more confused about your life, you aren't being able to encode your life styles and ways. Take a hold of yourself and try to be clam. Be good to others and hopefully other ewill be good to you.
2006-08-12 15:31:39 · answer #7 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what kinds of kids are you haning out with and are you under peer pressure? you should never do anything for someone else in the end its you who wins not them go back to your good behaviors!
2006-08-12 14:58:45 · answer #8 · answered by oceanlady580 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's called hormones.....
2006-08-12 14:58:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't imitate anyone.
2006-08-12 18:59:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋