2006-08-12 07:52:05 · 19 answers · asked by Kerry B 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
there are lots of ppl that be interested in you
2006-08-12 07:55:22 · answer #1 · answered by andy p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would advice you not to rush into another relationship immediately. First give yourself time to reflect on what went wrong with the previous relationship that hurt you.
Then think of the solutions that you can apply to avoid the repetition of the the same mistakes.
Be an example to your Three old daughter as i guess she knows what you are going throw and she will learn form your decisions because if you rush you might jump from the frying pan into the fire.
So please give yourself a break and make the right decision when the right time comes.
For the mean time make lots of friends go out and have fun and you never know amongst them you could get the right person.
You have my prayers and wish u the best.
2006-08-12 20:16:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends on if you're an interesting person? Everyone in this day and age brings a past into any new relationship with them. Trust is harder to earn and suspicions rapidly flower where there may be no reason. Then again, "just because you're not paranoid doesn't mean the whole world's not really out to get you". Just remember that most people in this dating game are just as nervous or moreso than you are. Good luck and Smile
2006-08-12 08:11:21 · answer #3 · answered by CJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
alot of guys are interested in a woman like you, you'll just of to know how to treat them and they will have to do the same for you. the secret to a successful relationship is to treat your spouse the way you would love to be treated. i know it can be hard to get back on track with someone different after you've been illtreated by others before, but donot uses others fat to fry any other spouse you may have. has for your daughter alot of men don't have family and would love to but for some reason or another they don't, would love to be a father for your daughter inspite that they are not the biological father. but then the isue of trust would arise again would he love her enough or would he love her too much that it becomes an obsession. you know there are some sick basterds out there but you may never know what will come your way unless you give it a try. and if you are still in fear of your uncertainties contact me. i have a wonderful brother who would be interested in a woman like you, because it seems you're both coming from the same life drama. His name is Demar Lawrence and he lives here in jamaica with me, telephone number is 876-390-9066 or you can contact him at this e-mail mrslaw-rence@yahoo.com
2006-08-12 08:10:10 · answer #4 · answered by speak my mind 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any decent guy would like you for who you are, not whether you have kids or not.Ive been shat upon from a great height before in relationships, but have tried to look past that and not think all women are the same. Are you having trouble with trusting men again?If you are, try not to let it show.I lost a girlfriend for that reason, so now, if i have any doubts, i keep then hidden unless i have to do otherwise.Best of luck!
2006-08-12 08:26:04 · answer #5 · answered by duracell18 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be with someone who has been badly hurt in the past,is to become friends first. Be there for her,listen to her problems. Be there for her,show her she got a friend in you firstly. Don't go in all i love you,I fancy you. That could come when she feels save with you. At ease with you. She might not be ready to be with someone yet. But if you be a friend first,that might mean alot to her. When she seems calm and on top of things,invite her and her 3 yr old to lunch. Bet even a day at the zoo for three of you would be enjoyable too. Don't rush into anything,it might show off bad vibes. good luck
2006-08-12 08:00:14 · answer #6 · answered by lovableleachy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Finding a right person is not an easy task or an easy puzzle to solve , if a man says he is interested it means he must be alone or depressed or he must be desperately in the need of casual encounters...test him before getting into anysort of relationship
It may work in this way a long time single friend, one who has given gifts to you in many occassions, including your wedding anniversaries..
Your companion must look after your daughter welfare also...
wish you good luck
Bye
2006-08-12 08:05:35 · answer #7 · answered by MACH J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is someone out there for you, I was in a very similar position to you, hurt badly in a previous relationship, mother to a wonderful 6 year old boy, alone from just before his birth until May of last year, I didn't go looking for my future husband, he found me, I wasn't looking for a relationship at all at the time we met but it was the best thing I ever did. Keep your chin up, think positive!
2006-08-16 01:42:10 · answer #8 · answered by Not called Katie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No offence but you shouldn't advertise on this, dunno what weirdos are out there (sorry everyone). In answer to your question can't answer because I've never met you but there are guys out there who will understand what you've been through and will accept you for who you are, daughter and all.
So I'm saying as long as you're interesting to a guy, he won't care too much about your baggage, he'll just be interested in you.
Hope that makes sense.
2006-08-12 08:05:03 · answer #9 · answered by Knight-wing 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hun i was hurt real bad to & i had a 9 yr old a 7 ty old & a baby
now i have a lovely man & another child with my new man
& we are planing to get married next yr as we been together nearly 3 yrs now
i hope your knight finds you soon
good luck
2006-08-16 01:47:25 · answer #10 · answered by just ask jo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't put yourself down, I'm sure you're a very nice person and I'm sure there are plenty of people who'd be interested and available!!
2006-08-12 08:06:34 · answer #11 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋