Who was your first gay experience with? Was a best friend or a flirtatious stranger? Did you love this person? Do you think it's better to be with someone older and more experienced for the first time, younger, or someone in the same boat as you? There aren't many good questions in this section, so I'd like to open some discussion.
2006-08-12 07:47:57 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Oh Elphaba...someone I didn't know...couldn't take my eyes or hands off him...really thought it was love...of course it wasn't..but hormones play strange tricks on your mind....at least for the few days that I was with him...his first name was ed....can't remember his last name...met him at the fruit loop..a gay pickup area in Vancouver...he moved to toronto..still think of him...this was 36 years ago
2006-08-12 12:35:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good questions ;-)
First gay experience:
( In terms of giving head) I was 12, the guy was 16, my brother's best friend.
( Intercourse) I was 13 ( summer break ) in Berlin, He was my first love we were together for 3 months. He was 18.
I think older and more experience guys are better. This is based on my experience. They are more respectful and gentle. Plus they know what they are doing. Gay intercourse hurts alot (for the first time ) and you need someone who knows how to keep you calm and relax. So therefore, older and more experience guys are way better.
2006-08-12 18:58:17 · answer #2 · answered by Beckham613 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my first true love was in high school. freshmen year I was in the lunch line, I fell backwards and he caught me in his arms. We had an off-and-on friendship but never got intimate. I fell very deeply in love; he was indifferent. I have deleted his phone numbers and tried to delete him from my life. the worst thing is, if he was mad at me or had a conversation at least about it, then I'd know he cared in some way. but no, I am just an insignificant little gnat to him. I am still grieving him as though he had died or it had been a hard break up.
It was less of a breakup and more of a disillusionment (on my part. On his part, I doubt he gives a damn. the bastard.
2006-08-12 16:52:40 · answer #3 · answered by Mr. Fancy Pants 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok this is weird, but my first was a girl that my husband was dating on the side. (we have an open relationship) and from the beginning i was totally attracted to her too. she is 3 years younger than me. she wasnt into girls at all before me, but i was curious so i seduced her. when we did it, it was like magic. Id had sex with guys thousands of times but nothing was like being with her. we are not together now cuz life is all ****** up. but we are both in love with each other. she always tells me that i turned her out. I think age or experience doesnt really matter, what matters is that you and the other person are attracted to each other on the same level and that you are open and honest with each other about expectations etc.
2006-08-12 15:14:49 · answer #4 · answered by Lovely L 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would answer your question but I have yet to fall in love romanticly. I know my feelings but that first experience hasn't happened to me yet. I'm kind of shy. I would like it to be with somebody close to my same age but maybe that could take control and start the first move. I would only go there with a friend. And it would have to mean something to us both.
2006-08-12 21:18:24 · answer #5 · answered by MindStorm 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
MY FIRST LESBIAN EXPERIENCE WAS WITH A FRIEND FROM WORK. WE BECAME GOOD FRIENDS AND LITTLE BY LITTLE WE FELL IN LOVE. SHE WAS 8 YEARS OLDER THAN I WAS AND I WAS A ROOKIE. SHE WAS THE SEXIEST THING THAT I HAD EVER SEEN. FUNNY, OUTGOING AND DAM SHE IS A GOOD KISSER.
SHE DROVE ME CRAZY AND WE COULD SPEND HOURS LAUGHING AND JUST BEING CRAZY. SHE IS MY BEST FRIEND FOR LIFE AND I KNOW THAT THERE WOULD BE NO ME WITHOUT HER BY MY SIDE. YESTERDAY, WAS OUR 1 YEAR ANNIVERSARY AND I CAN NOT WAIT TO MARRY HER SOMEDAY. WE HAVE BEEN GOOD FRIENDS FOR 8 YEARS BEFORE THIS.
SHE SHOWED ME WHAT LOVE IS AND THAT WITH LOVE ALL THINGS ARE POSSIBLE. SHE IS THE MOST BEAUTIFUL THING I HAVE EVER SEEN.
2006-08-12 14:59:46 · answer #6 · answered by sweet candy 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My first experience was with a friend whom I loved. It doesn't matter what age just the level of maturity. ALthough I love older women!!
2006-08-13 09:08:18 · answer #7 · answered by Seven 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mine was a woman I got to know online,but we're both close to the same age.I'm bi,she was actually a lesbian. I did fall for her,she didn't unfortunately feel the same way I did,I love her to this day
2006-08-12 16:15:52 · answer #8 · answered by dragonfly 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i dont count all my other relationships...i only count my one and only love .. i think of her as being my first... my first for everything .. i love her so much ... and we were best friends at first and fell inlove with each other ... she is so amazing ... im so in love with her
2006-08-12 14:55:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
mine was a stranger
2006-08-12 14:52:07 · answer #10 · answered by ☺Everybody still loves Chris!♥▼© 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋