my girl has been ignoring my phone calls laletly. the last time i talked to her was last nigth and she said she would call me back after she hung out with friends. today i woke up checked my cell and i got nothing..no voice message nor text messages. she hangs out more with her friends than me. she didnt even invite me to come to her bday. i dropped by her place the day after her birthday and left her present by the door. she got mad because she said that i could've stop over but i didnt, is this all going down the sink? does this lead to us breaking up? i dunno if its just me or am i thinkin too much about it.
2006-08-12 07:44:48 · 19 answers · asked by confused zer0 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
STOP CHASING THIS GIRL AND GIVE HER ROOM TO BREATH. Get a life go out with your mates stop ringing her and see what happens absents make the heart grow fonder. if that don't work move on.
2006-08-12 10:32:07 · answer #1 · answered by lady_di_ar125 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up now, even if she tries to explain all of her
moves and try to make it back or saying that she is
so sorry for this or that ... there is no excuse or
pardoning in your case. Yes, you can pardon her
because that is a noble gesture, but even so do
not dream of getting back to any intimate relationship.
Give her another chance because you think she will
change, NO she will not change. Enough suffering!
So get a grip of yourself, do what you have to do and,
from now on, think of yourself and you will soon find
someone deserving. In this world it is give and take, so
it is time to take care of yourself. Do it, you deserve
better. I wish you all the best, and be Happy.
2006-08-12 15:21:33 · answer #2 · answered by Ricky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you sound a little young to deal with these things. You will go through a lot of girlfriends until you meet the right one. Sometimes it is just better to give up and walk away. If you continue to chase after her she will lose any respect that she has for you. In the long run it is better to walk away while you still have some pride.
2006-08-12 15:05:31 · answer #3 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think she is your girlfriend anymore, sweetheart. She obviously doesnt want to be with you anymore but hasn't got the guts to say it to your face.
She is trying to take the easy way out by ignoring you and hoping you will take the message.
This must be very confusing and painful for you.
Take the hint and dont contact her any more. She didnt deserve that birthday present.
Forget her and move on. She is disrespecting you by not being honest.
2006-08-12 14:53:31 · answer #4 · answered by PEP 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like shes been hurt in the past and doesn't really know what she wants. She wants you there for her when shes ready and wants you to guess what the right thing to do is. I feel sorry for her but it's also not fair on you to keep getting knocked back for not knowing what to do to please her. You need to talk to her and tell her exactly how you feel and if there is any way of resolving this
2006-08-12 15:25:16 · answer #5 · answered by Kerry B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did it ever occur to you that the woman needs a little space to breathe. You seem to expect her to check in with you all the time.
Is this a fairly new relationship?
2006-08-12 17:36:17 · answer #6 · answered by monkeyface 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres good news and bad ,,she is probably enjoying the pork sausage somewhere else ,women do that,so write your feelings down i,e a song,sell it get rich and get yourself some decent boot y instead of a worn out slapper.any way keep your pecker up and remember you can always have a wafty crank.
2006-08-12 14:55:59 · answer #7 · answered by vivvy section 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope sounds like my old relationship. Really honestly sounds like she isnt intrested in you any more. Move on with your life. Stop calling her see if she calls you. Good Luck !
2006-08-12 15:51:42 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump her.you deserve much better mate. She sounds like a spoilt bratt.
2006-08-12 17:00:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
boy i think this is a reality check for u. either damp her or expect to be damped soon. i mean m a gal nd the only time i'll behave this way is when i think m tired of someone or i dont want to continue seeing someone, i think this is her way of telling u that she no longer likes u.... sorry
2006-08-12 15:00:16 · answer #10 · answered by klina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋