A friend asked me, and I wasn't quite sure about the answer. He's married and wanted to know if he should respect her privacy. He said he trusts he wife very much. Should he open or read mail that is already opened. And is it okay to read her email before asking? I told him I fully believe on privacy even in a marriage. Marriage is built on trust. But was that the best advise? What do you think?
2006-08-12 07:40:10 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
My husband and I respect each others privacy. You gave your friend some good advice.
2006-08-12 07:44:17 · answer #1 · answered by kim_in_craig 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Heck yeah that's the best advice. If you trust someone you shouldn't go snooping through their things. If he wants to know what's in her mail the all he has to do is ask. However if he invades her privacy he could be invading the privacy of one of her friends which really isn't fair. I have a friend who sends me emails about things she wants advice on but doesn't want anyone else to know about.
2006-08-12 07:48:41 · answer #2 · answered by MJ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best advice (not advise) is basically what you gave. If he doesn't trust her, then they need to figure out together why. Is it his issue or is she not trustworthy? They should possibly attend counseling to get this worked out before it ruins their marriage.
2006-08-12 07:46:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeh sure... her wife is an individual... she has her life, so as some privete matters... reading mails is never less than a mistrust... read them only if she shows you, and by the way, why does he need to... trust is the base of the relationship
2006-08-12 07:46:01 · answer #4 · answered by dhrupadvaria 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Privacy means respect for each other. Therefore, it must be maintained at all costs.
2006-08-12 07:43:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He should respect her privacy and trust her if he ever wants her to respect him.
2006-08-12 07:42:33 · answer #6 · answered by Alaska 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely!
2006-08-12 07:42:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he trusts her, what's the problem? he should not read her mail or e-mail without asking her first.
2006-08-12 07:45:58 · answer #8 · answered by Tommy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think he should open her email... But if he asked to see it i dont think she should tell him no.... I personally like to read my email first..after all it was sent to me... But if my fiance wanted to read it after i did i wouldnt be mad.
2006-08-12 07:44:44 · answer #9 · answered by Roxx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to trust her if you don't it want last in time her secret will come out if it is something bad
2006-08-12 07:45:02 · answer #10 · answered by sneekiepleasure 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋