Well I have this friend and i met him 5 months ago online, he's a great guy, and well the other day i told him i like him and well he told me he liked me too, (more than a friend) and well i have no idea if now he and i are g.f and b.f, becuase now he treats me with more care, and he even send me a kiss, and all that, but i don't know if he's just doing that like kidding around, or means it (cuz he like me 2) and well I don't even know if he's got a real girlfriend, or what the heck is going on.
Sould I ask him what's going on with us? (and if i do ask well how should i, cuz i'm not good at that kinda stuff), and well What should i do? (by the way i don't know if it matters, but he's 3 years older than me)
Please I need advise, cuz my friends that know him, can't even help me any more =S
2006-08-12 07:22:32 · 17 answers · asked by Melisa 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i was in a situation like this but umm... i'd ask him if u two are together or not and how he really feels about you and since you two only talk over the internet maybe you could ask him if he has a real girlfriend or if he's serious about you...
2006-08-12 07:26:41 · answer #1 · answered by curlie-ba-twirlie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I suggest when you have a chance, ask him what he sees you two as, and what he wants you two to be to each other. You can even phrase it as an "I want to make sure we're seeing the same thing" type of deal.
Before you do that, though, I really suggest you figure out what you see you two as, and what you WANT from him, relationship-wise. It's also a good idea to let him know where you're coming from when you feel the time's right. Guys often feel a lot of stress when it comes to girls and what kind of relationship they're having with one.
Communicate with him, and be honest, open, and make sure you don't expect him to read your mind...he can't. 3 years may seem like a lot at times, but at other times, it won't matter. Look at where you are in your life and where you think he is in his - what works best for you both?
Be true to you and life'll be good.
Good luck!
2006-08-19 19:38:53 · answer #2 · answered by tydlywnks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I also have a boyfriend that i have meet online and we are soon planned to be married. What matters for you is to ask him what is going on and if this could be something real and if it can get anymore serious. Open realtionships are the best and are the best . Tell him that you want to know if this is going to be more of if he just wants to keep this as a friendship relationship
2006-08-20 06:27:40 · answer #3 · answered by Forsaken Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's my opinion: he probably likes you for who you really are and vice-versa. Over the internet, even I like someone alot! Many people are going to find someone they really have feelings for, but what a boyfriend-girlfriend relationship really is is actually going out so that you can know for sure that that person might truly be the person you were meant for. I suggest you find out more about him, and if possible, ask for a picture of himself. Don't get into a "relationship" over the internet, try to just get to know him better before you decide that you truly want him. If he is the one, I'm happy for you, otherwise, it might be best to let him know that you'd rather be friends.
2006-08-12 07:31:31 · answer #4 · answered by Meg C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should confront him. Ask him if you two are more than friends. Just like what other people say, age doesn't matter. The important thing is that you two love each other.
2006-08-20 03:57:27 · answer #5 · answered by fashion_model 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be truthful, i think of you will desire to easily ask him. Then, if he denies it or fobs you off, tell him you wont be taken care of that way, and you will stay away until eventually he decides to handle you like a buddy returned. you do no longer deserve it. how are you able to have confidence somebody who lies each and every of the time?
2016-09-29 04:53:53 · answer #6 · answered by boland 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should keep it simple on line you have no idea who your talking to. People can say anything on line you have no way of knowing if it's true. Don't ever give out any personnel info on line.
2006-08-19 08:05:07 · answer #7 · answered by robert d 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Towelie says always remember to bring a towel. Wanna get high?
2006-08-20 07:33:24 · answer #8 · answered by The Chief 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong if you ask him. Just be careful, the internet is not a safe place.
2006-08-19 06:37:45 · answer #9 · answered by Firebird 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just ask hima nd i think that internet love can really hurt you because most guys be lieying to you and well i thik that he might be lieying ask him and get to know him in person and just ask him in a way you think is right
2006-08-12 07:27:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋