To the GIRLS, what sort of man do you look for? what qualities should he have and what way should he treat you? and GUYS, how do you think you should treat a woman and what do you do to make her feel wanted, special and loved? I have just come out of a violent and just plain nasty relationship of 10 years and want to know if there really is anything different out there?
2006-08-12 07:16:57 · 11 answers · asked by Kerry B 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You should treat all women with respect. If its a woman you love and are in a relationship with then you should treat her with affection as well as respect.
Best way to make a woman feel wanted, special and loved is to find out what she absolutely adores. If she likes a foot massage, take a little bit of time every few days to give her a foot massage, for example.
2006-08-12 07:20:55 · answer #1 · answered by ty_rosewood 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
On looking at your question, I just realised how lucky I am with my man. At the end of the day, after trust, kindness, sense of humour - all qualities a good relationship should have - I just know I have a person on whom I can depend and confide in when the going gets tough.. My definition - I really look forward to going home from work just to see him , discuss the day, fight, have a laugh and generally look after each other. You now have experienced a putrid relationship so you can move on . There are some really good geezers out there and boy do you deserve one. My good wishes to you . Remember violent partners can undermine your confidence as you know. Get out there girl and knock em dead xxxx Have fun!!!!!!!
2006-08-12 07:32:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best advice I can give is this.....
Look around you, if you don't know anyone or any couples that have the type of relationship you want, then find other people to hang with that do. You need to get good examples in your life. Once you get there, then figure out what kind of guy you like, then figure out what kind of girl that kind of guy is attracted to. Then work hard to be that type (only if it's positive change in your life) of girl. You'll become a better person, have more confidence, and maybe realize you don't NEED another person to make you happy, but you WANT them to share experiences with.
2006-08-12 08:08:32 · answer #3 · answered by Say it like it is 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've gone for the wrong men in the past and subsequently was left with a 5 month old and a mortgage! Go for the man with the nice personality, that makes you laugh. Someone you've gotten to know over a period of time. Take it light at first, don't rush in.
Give yourself some time first. I could never be on my own. I've now been single for nearly a year and it's done me the power of good!!!
Good luck I hope it works out for you. x
2006-08-12 08:29:24 · answer #4 · answered by Sweething 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My partner and I have been together for 4 and 1/2 years and although, like everyone, we've been through crappy times as well as good, for the most part we have been very happy. I think primarily you have to want the same things out fo life and enjoy similar pursuits - you should have things like musical tastes and things that you appreciate in common.
More than anything else, you need to be able to have simple fun together - going for walks, cooking meals, watching films. It's all well and good enjoying the fast, expensive and exciting things together but you also need to be able to have a good, easy time for free.
I always look for a partner who can make me laugh and (importantly) who I fancy like mad. The sex needs to stay good for it to last.
Congratulations on getting out of your nasty relationship, by the way. Years ago I was in a similar situation and it took me ages to realise that the bad things the bloke did to me weren't my fault and that I wasn't the worst person on earth, as he kept on telling me I was.
Give yourself a bit of space to get over it before you look for someone new and then go for someone who, ultimately, makes you happy. If you spend more of your time miserable than enjoying yourself then you know you are in the wrong relationship.
Best of luck!!
2006-08-12 07:35:08 · answer #5 · answered by sallybowles 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aawwwww just read yours and yes there is a different type of men out there and if you meet a man and if he asking for 1 thing make sure you cross the list off him he no good, you need a guy that treat you loved and listen that more like it.
Luv Lily Savage xxxx
2006-08-12 07:25:17 · answer #6 · answered by Sir Alan Sugar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always treat a woman with mutual respect. I want to do everything to take care of her needs, and communicate with her, so I know what she wants. I think that's very important in any relationship.
2006-08-12 07:21:58 · answer #7 · answered by Road Trip 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Treat her as your Queen and she should treat him as her King! Both partners need to be consciencious of each other's needs, moods, feelings, etc. Treat he like a lady (I know that's a hard concept to grasp with all the "B***CH" and "HO" talk!) but women want to be treated nicely and be made to feel loved, supported and valued by her guy.
Guys, you need to learn about Sir Walter Raleigh and the concept of chivalry; believe me, it's not dead, but is does seem to be mortally wounded at times!
And, BOTH of you need to treat each with respect; respecting each other's dignity. One of the most disgusting things to witness is a man or a woman mistreating one another in public. Men hold them up! Women, let them do it!
One last thing of advice...neither of you are "THINGS" but thinking, feeling and caring people. Nourish those traits in one another
2006-08-12 07:36:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why did you stay in it for ten years?
Yes there is better outside, just dont rush looking for it.
2006-08-12 07:21:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how it is to be like that if you fancy a chat E mail me
2006-08-12 19:10:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋