a girl who had many affairs...who lies all the time...who made fites in ur house among ur family...
now tht girl wants u back...loves u.... n promises u not to repeat the same... 1 more thing... u love her too.... will u marry this girl if she says she has changed????????
2006-08-12 07:11:31 · 18 answers · asked by hitz 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Words mean little: test her for her worth and see if it is just an empty promise. See if she walks the walk and dosen't just talk the talk. If she always lies, what makes you believe that she will change. Also, if she does all these bad things, what is it about her that you love? Also, if you marry someone, shouldn't your love be unconditional, and shouldn't you not try to change your partner but accept them? I mean, don't make them believe they have carte blanche to behave any way they want, try to encourage their personal growth and development. Also, if she has changed this time, what makes you think she won't change back to her old ways?
2006-08-12 07:17:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
sugar don't just jump back in and tie the knot. The old saying goes Actions speak louder than words. Trust is a big thing and for you to trust it has to start with forgiveness. She can earn your trust back and in that you have to allow her to show you. I know it's hard to trust but in order for you to be able to and her to want to continue giving you reasons to trust her let her be able too. No one said it would be easy but as well family can not play a part in this. This is your relationship and outside influences can make it hard to know exactly what to do. Take a day or 2 to yourself and think about if this is something you really want or if it's just time to lick your wounds and move on.
2006-08-12 14:21:26 · answer #2 · answered by star110772000 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Run, dont walk from this riotous woman. She will cause you a lifetime of pain. Her words mean nuthing, they are only enticements to get what she wants, YOU! Once she has you where she wants you, you are dead meat. This girl is your worst nightmare. She has a proven track record. Make her prove she's changed....for like.....five years! Seriously, put some distance between you and this scandelous woman.
2006-08-12 14:18:38 · answer #3 · answered by nitr0bike 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Like everyone else, I say no. A leopard never changes its spots, right? If she cannot respect you or your family, then I do not think she is worth it. There are other (and better, I'm sure) fish in the sea waiting for you.
2006-08-12 14:16:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you ever hard you cant turn and whore in to and house wife? ........ this saying is true the guy married my friend thinking the baby was his well to his surprise nope it wasn't his. he know she had cheat on him in the passed she told him she had den.but she white he is white and the baby is mixed hummmm.... he went on and had the DNA test anyway. no kid is not his she steal says to this day she didn't cheat. lol she knows i know better then that lol i have covered for her *** before. i love my friend to death don't get me wrong and i told her she need to watch her sex life better and she was turning in to and suit. she didn't like to hear it but she knows i am right. she is now eat up with STD so you going to go and take this girl back you going to end up taped like that guy. but may not be able to get out it like he did. need to find some one who well treat you right and not miss with chicken heads. you end up catching something that going to kill you in an couple years.
2006-08-12 14:32:27 · answer #5 · answered by mommy72403 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no
she will turn back the same way once you both do get married
i'd say just move on and try to forget her for the best of your well-being
2006-08-12 14:22:16 · answer #6 · answered by annie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no way....sounds like a crazy biatch. there's too many good ones out there. i know you love her, but you WILL love someone else. she can't change overnight, either. she might change for a month, but she won't for good without tons of therapy.
2006-08-12 14:16:45 · answer #7 · answered by Amanda K 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. are you mad ? old habits die hard- you are only her next affair only for a time being.
2006-08-12 14:18:41 · answer #8 · answered by shribharatpshubh 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i won't marry her straight away but i will give her a chance to prove herself cause it is true that PEOPLE CHANGE.
2006-08-12 14:16:43 · answer #9 · answered by Jas 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"if she has changed???????" .............yes, but are you sure she has changed?
A person who has many affairs can't change. Believe me.
2006-08-12 14:32:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋