I have this friend,I have known him for about 6 years I can't stand any of the girls he's dated.I'm not interested in him romantically.He has recentaly got married and I hate his wife,and they're about to have a baby.I also hate babies.Ever since he got married he's been treating all of his friends as if they don't exist.But when he finally does contact one of us he acts like he didn't do anything wrong!! I am thinking of just cutting him off completly,he hasn't been a good friend anyway.I know it may soud petty but i have been putting up with this crap for a while now and i am fed up with him.What do you think?
2006-08-12 07:09:16 · 17 answers · asked by Cassandra 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I know what you mean- I'm in a situation like that-not as bad, but bad enough that I feel, I always have to do the first move etc. And, I too was thinking of cutting her off for good as well. I'm testing her, and after this year, if things don't change then I think I will, I don't need to waste my time trying to bond the friendship when I don't think she is doing her part. Tell your friend how you feel, and if he doesn't change then fcuk him!!
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2006-08-14 01:56:32 · answer #2 · answered by great jobs 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's like this. Everyone on the planet has friends who get married, have kids, and basically forget all about there friends. Sometimes its the wife who insist that her man should do this, and if he's P whipped, then he will.Thats just the way life is. I would suggest that you make as many friends as possible in this life. That helps ease the pain when things like this happen. It seems to me that you have a bit of a problem with haitng, learn to let that go. It will just age you faster and rust you're soul.
2006-08-12 14:19:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you're right; it does sound petty. If that's the way you feel, why do you even call him a friend? More than that, I suggest you read through your question again and count the number of times you use the word "hate". Maybe it's not his attitude that needs adjusting, lady, but yours! I don't think you've been a good friend to him, is what it sounds like to me! Think about it!
2006-08-12 15:21:55 · answer #4 · answered by Mike Z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Problem is, you also have some problems. You don't seem to be interested in people. You hate the girls he dated, you hate his wife, and you hate babies.
It is no wonder you're having a hard time finding TRUE GOOD FRIENDS because you can't be a TRUE GOOD ONE. Sorry, I'm just being honest with my opinion because a true good friend is a friend through thick and thin.
2006-08-12 14:24:20 · answer #5 · answered by cactus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
eh hem, u are just too selfish here. he's got his family here, and sometimes people get preoccupied, so they don't have enough time to spend with everybody. And u say u hate his wife, why? And when he acts like he did nothing wrong, maybe he thought his friends would understand he's been busy... eh, u shouldn't listen to me if u think ure rite. anyways, im confusing myself but maybe if i were u, id be thinking about cutting him off too, but id also want an explanation first, and maybe id give him a second chance.
2006-08-12 14:18:36 · answer #6 · answered by Summi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, friends are important. Some people tend to do that when they get involved, does it make it right? I suggest, be the better person, continue to be his friend no matter what. I feel that he will appreciate you more. Hope this helps.
2006-08-12 14:13:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like you aren't going to fit into his new life, since you don't like his wife or his new baby, so bow out now.
2006-08-12 14:13:37 · answer #8 · answered by DMBthatsme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look it is prolly hard for him to make time when you have kids and a wife you have a lot on your plate don't end the friendship
2006-08-12 14:13:59 · answer #9 · answered by bamber lyn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
change is sometimes for better or worse, sit down and weight the pros and cons. if he doesnt realize how he messed up then he never will.
2006-08-12 14:13:26 · answer #10 · answered by leon11357 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋