I was wondering, i was talking to my best friend yesterday and he said that he thought the first one to say i love you in a relationship should be the guy. I dont necessarily agree with him. It doesnt matter to me. I'm thinking of telling my boyfriend i love him-he has not yet-but i'll wait for the right time later when i'm older and really in love.Who do you think should say it first?
2006-08-12 07:08:37 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I'm 13 but waiting until i truly know i am in love, which is not now, i know.
2006-08-12 07:19:19 · update #1
Yes, that would totally suck. it would suck indeed.
2006-08-12 07:21:58 · update #2
You'll wait til you're older and the time is right? WOW! That's .. freakin as grown up as I've ever heard in ages!
You should get the 10 points! LOL.
I totally agree you should wait to love until you think you know love is love and not lust.
In my opinion, it doesn't matter who says it first. You can say it at the same time.. sorta.. by sayin "you know we've been together for a bit of time.. I'm having this feeling that I'm truly in love with you.. how do you think about us?"
That's a bit better than just sayin "Oh my - I can't live without you.. I'm so in love with you.. I love you I LOVE YOU .. I LOVE YOU!!!!! "
But whatever you do.. don't wait if you feel somethin.. get it out. Or else somebody else may do it for you.. meanin.. what if there another girl that like him.. and she says we never talk.. i see you all the time.. i think crazy but I think I love you.. can we go out.
That would suck.
2006-08-12 07:17:05 · answer #1 · answered by game buddee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well id think it matters as long as you both love each other.. my bf said it to me first.. i was really happy to hear "I love you" from him.. its soo sweet of him ^.^
2006-08-12 14:16:07 · answer #2 · answered by (<' . '<)MoOomOOoo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter. Men don't have some strange power. They just have penises. (Hopefully.)
2006-08-12 14:13:20 · answer #3 · answered by grimm.fixie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋