well, they told you that they had a LOT LOT LOT of money with them in a credit card (and they truely do)
and said they were running away from home.
actually away from the country and wanted to live in Europe. As in litterelly MISSING !
they asked if you would come with them...with them...to run away...and live in Europe.
keep in mind we are still young here.
Would you go with her?
2006-08-12 07:04:27 · 29 answers · asked by hjplover1 1 in Education & Reference ➔ Studying Abroad
i don't think yall understand.
WE BOTH HATE OUR LIVES HERE...
and all the other stuff i said
2006-08-12 07:36:36 · update #1
and she has the money on her...
2006-08-12 07:37:54 · update #2
No, and tell her not to go either. It's dangerous, especially when you don't know your way in Europe. You can't just up and run away from home to Europe.
2006-08-12 07:10:07 · answer #1 · answered by musicrazy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell you what, at first, this would be a lot of fun. Just for the fact that you are doing something that will be "wrong" - (against parent/teacher's wishes).
Why don't you two go on a trip internationally by yourselves with permission from others? Wherever they use the credit card, if it is the parent's, the parents will find you and have the police or so on detain you.
If it is her OWN credit card, she is going to regret all of these crazy purchases later on. If she just got this credit card and wants to buy something, tell her to buy something she can keep forever.
If she stole the card, the person who owns it will find out so you two will be in a lot of trouble as you would be her accomplice.
I would say, no, don't go with her, even if she is your best friend.
Save the money, wait until you two are 18 or are ALLOWED to do fun things like this, and then take a EUROtrip "legally" and tour Europe by backpacking, biking or staying in youth hostiles. That will be a lot more fun and valuable for your future. you will learn a lot of culture.
2006-08-12 14:10:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, and I would talk her out of going herself. You both sound way too young and naive to move away. It's not some quick fix to your problems, but it sure is a way to find yourself in all sorts of new trouble. You don't even know the half of the legalities required for someone to legally work in Europe, and you probably have not given any thought to cost of living, adapting, or anything like that. Leaving home is not some big adventure, especially if you're running away and have no family support.
Besides, if it's her own credit card, she can kiss that credit rating goodbye. If it's her parents, she'd be screwing them royally with their credit rating. Everything you do has a consequence, whether it is to yourselves or to others. You might not care about these things now, that you're so young, but eventually you will.
2006-08-12 14:59:58 · answer #3 · answered by cmm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. It depends on your age. If you're under 18, I would say you don't go. Not only are you not mature enough, but you also get a lot of limits for not being overage.
2. How do you know for sure she has the money? Where did she get it from? Maybe she's just saying that so you agree to go along, but I find it hard to believe.
3. Even if she really had the money, that doesn't guarantee anything, you can still get a lot of trouble if you don't know how to travel, or speak the language, or know how to survive by yourselves, plus that money is not gonna last forever.
2006-08-12 22:50:47 · answer #4 · answered by alex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, I got plans for a life of reality, that would be a terrible idea because you could'nt see your family, you would be in hiding forever, and why would you make your family cry because you wanted to go away forever and spend their money like a little brat? But if your life was really horrible and your family hated you i'd go. Just to get away, i'm not much of a big spender lol. But back to the point, everyone thinks their life is horrible these days so most people will probably go.
2006-08-12 14:07:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends how young you are
If its legal why not go
If you are under the age of 18 I say stay where you are
But just because she has alot of money doesnt mean that something wont happen down the line
and you arent entitled to her money to begin with
You would also need to have a plan
and keep in mind if either one of you want to have a job and someone here puts you up as missing they will be able to find you
2006-08-12 14:07:16 · answer #6 · answered by mocha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i wouldnt go if i were young as you and your friend are. they credit card can always be cut off after you run away and you would be stuck without any money. also there alot of weird and crazy people out there that could take advantage of you or kidnap you and prostitute you out to people for money. you and your friend need to really think this through before running away. if you dont like living with your parents find another family member to live with. running away wont solve your problems it will just make them worse.
2006-08-12 15:22:27 · answer #7 · answered by crackalac 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Europes not all great. Do what you feels right. If your life sucks and you want a delusional fantasy of running away and starting a new life on a different continent and be happy and have the perfect life then go on.
Bare in mind I called that dream/fantasy delusional.
2006-08-12 14:07:49 · answer #8 · answered by schizoidrew 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What would you do when you got over there? Where would you live? And besides if you used you credit card her parents could find you guys in no time. I don't think it's a good idea, especially if you're under 18.
2006-08-12 15:12:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would try to talk her out of it. Its not as grand in Europe as you might think. Its a case of "is the grass greener on the other side". Its not. Find out WHY she wants to run away. Not finishing school could really hurt you in the long run. Jobs everywhere mosly require you to atleast have a highschool diploma.
2006-08-12 14:09:52 · answer #10 · answered by Allyson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋