whenever i try talking to guys i end up sounding stupid or i dont talk to them at all any advice???
2006-08-12 06:58:50 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body
wear scanty clothing and let your body do the talking
2006-08-12 07:01:07 · answer #1 · answered by randy p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i had a problem like this last year. there was this totally cute guy who i liked, but i never had the guts to talk to him, and i ended up getting nothing. what you need to do is start by saying "hi", then listen to the conversation. if it sounds like something personal between the certain guy and the other person, then quietly step out. if you have something to relate to the story, wait for an opening in the conversation and say what needs to be said(but think about what you are going to say first, so you don't sound like a complete idiot.) also, if the conversation moves on before you can say your piece, then forget about it. it will make you sound like an idiot if you do. glad to help!!
2006-08-12 07:16:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry, us guys are too busy staring at your... lovely face... to hear anything you say anyhow.
Just stare back at our... lovely faces... and we'll get the hint after a while. Then if we ask you something, just take a few seconds to decide what the shortest possible answer is, that way you won't get too tripped up.
That other answerer mentioned scanty clothing. Chaning your style of dress isn't necessary, but as a guy, I must admit that lack of clothing can hide a multitude of conversational blunders... so long as you're not looking for a long-term relationship.
2006-08-12 07:08:46 · answer #3 · answered by ye_river_xiv 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start by saying hi, then move on from there. take each step of the conversation at your own pace, if he likes you he'll hopefully continue to carry the conversation and remember to sound confident every one is nervous around guys until they are used to being around that certain guy for a while.
2006-08-12 07:06:38 · answer #4 · answered by jgal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to just say be yourself. If they dont like you for you then you prably sont want to be with them anyways! Look in the mirror and make sure you look okay then let destiny take it tole. Oh girl tink before you speak in order to prevent sounding dumb and try to ask him questions about himself!
2006-08-12 07:10:25 · answer #5 · answered by Whitney G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think to yourself, "they're not a totally different species. they're just guys."
i say that to myself when i'm having a hard time trying to talk to a crush.
2006-08-12 07:05:03 · answer #6 · answered by Isabela 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just act like u all cool and the words will come out nice and slow
2006-08-12 07:07:35 · answer #7 · answered by morenachula06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well what u should do is just be yourself because some guys like me , wanna girl who can be herself and have fun
2006-08-12 09:36:30 · answer #8 · answered by dmoney E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just smile and be nice
2006-08-12 07:01:30 · answer #9 · answered by jercha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl... i know how u feel... but the most important thing to do is just be yourself...... it will all work out great... trust me
2006-08-12 07:04:25 · answer #10 · answered by unknown 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋