my husband masterbates every morning when he showers. (Even though he won't admit it) My question is if you masterbate everyday do men lose attraction for their wifes or g/f. I mean we don't have sex everyday. I wish we would. I am willing to take care of him. If I walk in on him he feel embarrassed and we don't do anything that day cause he feelings like he got caught. I have tried to get in shower and join but he won't let me. I just really want to know if it makes you not attracted to your partners. I'm asking also because I have tried being naked when he comes home from work and it doesn't excite him. He smiles but we still don't have sex till night time. Please help.....
2006-08-12 06:54:53 · 6 answers · asked by reeree7400 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
I have already talked to him about it but he get upset because I mention it. He hates talking about what he does sexually. Besides if he get's embarrassed he is just going to lye about. He feel that what he does by himself is personal. I shouldn't even know he does it!
2006-08-12 07:01:49 · update #1
Any expert will tell you that most highly-sexed men – particularly young men – will often choose to masturbate despite being in good, sexually loving relationships.This is how guys are. They tend to be more highly charged sexually than women, and they also tend to enjoy the quick, reliable and intensely centred orgasm they get from 'doing it themselves'. It's a fact of life.
So, most likely, the fact that your man might want to masturbate from time to time is nothing whatever to do with your sex life or your relationship. I am assuming that you have the normal, active sex life of a young married couple. If you don't, then that is a very different matter. But you don't hint at any difficulties.
So, if I were you, I would simply accept that this is how lots of men are. I hope that I have gone some way to reassuring you that all is well.
2006-08-12 08:48:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has definate problems! I can have sex 3 times a day and masturbate too so I dont know what is going on with your man especially if you are trying so hard. Maybe you should find some one who appriciates you and your sex drive. Try cutting him off for a month and then see how receptive he is. If he is not by then he is screwing around on you!
2006-08-12 07:41:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
we don't loose interest it is because we are just horney and we
NEED top take care of business
walk in when his head is unbder the watter and reach in from behind and give him a hand this is what is really running through his mind is that you would come and get kinky with him
trust me
2006-08-12 07:04:08 · answer #3 · answered by mc_1_2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I masturbate -- and I still have sex with my partner, and I still think he's the most amazing person, and I still love him.
It hasn't changed the way I feel.
2006-08-12 07:00:58 · answer #4 · answered by Brian 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well...i was in a similar situation... and after we broke up, he told me he was gay... i know im not helping, i just warning you..
2006-08-12 07:31:29 · answer #5 · answered by Katrina D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be direct to him about it.
2006-08-12 06:59:36 · answer #6 · answered by koko 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋