how can man just not understand what kind of women they have?

Question

i let him b him but he just wn't let me b me if only ya would just understand i feel i going to go crazy .i just wan to run and never stop help. i can't go crazy im hurting my self, im about to have a brake down .he a good man but he acts like he wan to b my dad and im not having that i nt that type of person dnt try to control me i hate it

Answer 1

Tell him. If he can't deal with it, end the relationship.

Answer 2

My first husband was the opposite of yours. He wanted a Mother, not a wife. My Dad was the strong parent in our house. When I married my husband he wanted me to make all the decisions. It drove me up the wall. I loved him, had 2 daughters with him, I talked to him about how he made me feel and how angry I was about his treatment of me. We divorced after 3 years, got back together a year later, for the girls, and he treated me the same as before. I know this sounds petty compared to a lot of divorces, but Denny was/is a great person just not right for me. I never could explain it to anyone about how mad he made me when he wanted me to...pick out his clothes to wear, what to have to eat, where to go when we went out, should he go see his parents, should he work over-time, should he go to bed now, should he mow the yard today...on and on until I'd explode and say for crying out loud eat whenever you want, go where you want, I'm not your Mother!!! We divorced 2 years later. I like my Ex, he has a great wife and little boy and I think he's happier now than what he ever would have been with me. You most likely won't change your husband.

Answer 3

Run, scream, get out, he is a control freak next comes the physical abuse. The cement block.He is never going to be happy with anyone or anything. I bet he buys stuff that he just has to have then when he gets it he finds something wrong with it.

Answer 4

hmm sorry to say, in relationship both needs to sacrifice . its like a clamp and attachment. if you sacrifice something your partner would sacrifice something and that would strenghten the relationship. do not see it like he is controling you try to change your view and i guess he always prefering the best things for you so controling in a sense not bad. parents always teach their children what is good or what is bad for them. similarly nothing wrong if a partner , a wellwisher expresses his opinion and guides you on the right way. similarly you try to guide him too. (unless someothr men poking in your head!) good luck

Answer 5

And out of that mess, your question is?

Answer 6

Break up with him.