First no he does not sell porn involving anyone under the age of 18 and I asked him how good is the money. Because like he gives me 2 to 3 thousand dollars every couple of days. And the women he recruits are making like 4 to 5 hundred dollars a day. But I still hate that he is doing this because I feel that it is morally wrong. But at the same time the money is great he bought me a brand new BMW a week ago. I just hate how he is getting the money. Should I let him keep doing this as this money is taking good care of our children. I am stuck. Please help?
2006-08-12 06:51:26 · 17 answers · asked by Medical and Business Information 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Porn will continue with or without your husband. As long as only adults are used it is only a business. People are not forced to go to porn sites. The lure of them may be more than many can handle but for every site that folds there will be 10 more. Take the money and run but be sure He does not become addicted to it himself.
2006-08-12 06:56:48 · answer #1 · answered by hardnose 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Regardless of how much money you are receiving do you really want you husband shooting porn of women? If you feel that what he is doing is morally wrong don't you think it's just as immoral to accept the money? Isn't condoning a wrong just as bad as doing it? What do you think your kids would think about daddy being a porn director or whatever? Do you want your kids to have to deal with the taunts at school should any of the other kids found out what daddy is up to? Only you can answer these questions.
2006-08-12 07:01:50 · answer #2 · answered by MJ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It obviously doesn't bother your morals that much or you wouldn't have accepted the car or the money. When it comes down to it there's nothing you can do, since its not your decision. If you really want him to stop you can threaten to leave him, and this may work, but how will you feel down the road when you're both busting your asses at low paying jobs, struggling to make ends meet? Will you feel better because your morals have been appeased? The bottom line is that your children are more important than your moral conscience, and as long as they are not being endangered then they should be your first consideration, not your moral quandary. If you are realy bothered by it, donate your new car and most of the money he gives you to charity. That would be a moral thing to do.
2006-08-12 07:00:05 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
enable me see, He lost his interest in a bad economic gadget after helping the kin for 25 years. He in all probability have been given depressed over it. So because of the fact he lost his interest and you have categorized him lazy you at the instant are not intimate for 6 MONTHS ! 6 MONTHS, somewhat? and you think of he has a situation for finding at porn? NO intercourse from spouse = Stroking to porn. you're fortunate he has no longer left you. in all probability because of the fact he can no longer discover the money for it. you at the instant are not the skinniest ingredient and wouldn't have intercourse with him yet sense betrayed? Porn is in lieu of a heat physique and is no longer betrayal. Why do no longer you agree for which you drove him to this fairly of his finding a heat physique to bang. If there replaced into any betrayal right here it replaced into YOU shutting him down after his dropping his interest after 25 years. He loses his interest and you don't get his money so which you close him off. that's meant to be all top? the place is the affection and help for the time of problematic situations? there is not any from you it sort of feels. Now you opt to tug him into the airborne dirt and dirt even greater advantageous for finding at porn? 6 months without intercourse and you sense betrayed. You disgust me.
2016-09-29 04:51:59 · answer #4 · answered by boland 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haha, quite the dilema, hey? Well, if he isn't doing anything illegal and not getting into the lifestyle where he would not be sticking to your wedding vows, then I wouldn't fight it. Even if he just does this for 10 years, your retirement and college for the kids etc. will all be paid for and you can enjoy your life together. If I was you, I would become more involved in the business side of things and keep an eye on it (and him) too - but that's just me! : )
2006-08-12 06:57:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he's selling porn of underage people, that's something he's not going to tell you. He knows it's wrong and he's not going to reveal anything to get himself busted. Sorry, but when you accept that money and gifts, you're just as greedy as he is and you can be bought.
2006-08-12 06:57:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
As long as nothing he is doing is illegal then I don't see anything wrong especially if he is bringing in money like that! People watch porn and just because he deals with it doesn't mean you have to watch it. Also if he isn't actually doing the porns himself then hey, let him go for it!
2006-08-12 06:55:19 · answer #7 · answered by druhill119 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Whether legal or not,its not good to do such things.Are not you ashamed that your children will follow his footsteps when they grow up.What kind of life do you want your children to lead.In my community some principles are more important than money.
2006-08-12 07:03:50 · answer #8 · answered by raju 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U should join him and help him if r u good looking u can be the women in lead role... as ull save 4-5 hundred dollars........
2006-08-12 06:56:00 · answer #9 · answered by jaishankar4202002 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, keep letting him do it. I see nothing wrong with it. No one is being forced to take the pics or buy them. Good luck and enjoy the money.
2006-08-12 06:56:04 · answer #10 · answered by Alaska 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋