it's like this; I have a boyfriend (I = girl) not so recently i found she male porn on his PC.He keeps saying they were pop ups, which is not so cause I checked the sites out myself.Ever since I'm suspicious and I run through his personal things...and find more what I don't want to find.NOw when is proof proof enough?
2006-08-12 06:50:00 · 14 answers · asked by kobe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think it's not a matter of proof. I think if you're here asking about it, you have already left. Relationships aren't trials, you don't need proof to leave. If you're that suspicious and uncomfortable about him, then I think you should do whats best for both of you and end the relationship.
2006-08-12 06:56:45 · answer #1 · answered by sherrie_66 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unless you plan on standing there and watching, which more than likely you never see what's going on first hand. I would think that you would already now that it is true the first bit of proof you found you would proof enough. Now it's up to you to decide if you have enough. Until you face it an stop procrastinating and do it you will continue to find reasons (as in when is proof proof enough) to deal with the issue.
2006-08-12 07:00:29 · answer #2 · answered by star110772000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It should be enough the first time you find something you dont like. You know why ? Because when you find it for the first time, you will look again, and you will find again. And if you stay and you keep looking you will keep finding things. I wish it wasn't this way but it is. I just recently broke up with my boyfriend for the same reason. I'm tired of looking and I'm tired of finding things. Life is too short and I deserve better. So do you.
2006-08-12 06:54:47 · answer #3 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you found proof and you know for sure he is up to something then you have to make a decision if you wanna stay. You aren't married to him which makes it easier. That's what dating and having boyfriends is all about. Finding that person that is right for you and does the things you like
2006-08-12 06:58:53 · answer #4 · answered by druhill119 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think NOW...simply because you dont trust him, your thrashing down every ounce of trust just by being that paranoid about an internet hottie...not that i blame you or anything....but you could always romantically ask him what it is that he enjoys about those internet porn videos and find out if its something you guys can actually bring into reality...if he has a serious addiction, then yoiu best be leaving him to sort it out, while you're getting on with your life....otherwise, just build up enough patience to find out whether or not the situation has a quick fix..
2006-08-12 07:09:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes I get those nasty pop-ups, but they are easily deleted and the sites blocked. Your boyfriend has no excuses, hon. He's probably curious, or bi-curious, but his lack of honesty with you sucks. If he won't come clean, and you feel the need to resort to detective work then I'd say dump his ***. You will only get hurt and more disappointed in him if you stay.
2006-08-12 06:58:14 · answer #6 · answered by rhiwedhel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-01 23:58:02 · answer #7 · answered by ribbs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is time to get out of that and all...but i have one question for you why are you going threw his things and that is not right does he go threw your things but yeah it is time to give that one up cuz it is going to hurt you in the long run email me about the question i asked you colez_sexi_papi@yahoo.com
2006-08-12 06:55:04 · answer #8 · answered by colez_sexi_papi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you are uncomfortable and you are not getting satisfactory answers it is time to pack up and leave.
2006-08-12 06:57:14 · answer #9 · answered by snddupree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to decide for yourself.
Is it something that he is curious about, but no desire to participate with?
Or is it a precursor to other behaviors?
2006-08-12 06:54:14 · answer #10 · answered by dannyl410 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋