my bf said that he want to have sex with me.and also he bought some gstrings underwears for me and he said i have to wear them.i dont like to have sex im only 14 and his 16.i dont know what to do??can i wear gstrings any where that i like?
2006-08-12 06:46:42 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
well he told me that he wants to sex with me he also once tried to naked me and he tried to touch my vagina but i get a way from him.
2006-08-12 06:55:49 · update #1
well dont sex unitil ur a 14 teenage girl.as the rules in every countries sex in young age is very bad for the girl to carry the baby.stay a way from that boy and have fun with ur school and friends.gstrings are a kind underwear.if u like them wear cuz there is no line on ur dress.have fun
2006-08-13 02:41:58 · answer #1 · answered by ~nice girl~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should know that all teenage boys want sex with whoever they can get. Don't let them pressure you. The best boyfriend will take no for an answer and still be your boyfriend. You need to know the boy for quite a while on your own terms before you can be comfortable having sex. I think 14 is too young to start. Keep your virginity as long as you can.
As for G-strings or thongs they're not very comfortable. They get guys excited. If you do that you'll be getting the kind of pressure you don't want.
I think 16 may make him legally an adult and if he touches your vagina he's a child molester. If you tell him that maybe he'll take you seriously when you say no.
He may be just a typical horny teenage boy and will still like you without sex. Tell him to control his hormones around you or find another girl. It works sometimes.
2006-08-12 14:31:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you hate to hear this but you are still a child & so is he!! Please don''t let him pressure you into something you don't want to do...I did & regreted it for a long long time. He isn't being a very good boyfriend if you've told him you don't want to and he is still pushing it on you. Threaten to break up with him or that you'll tell your parents if he keeps it up. He's probably just curious about it which is normal but he needs to learn now that when a girl says NO she means it...even though you are only 14 show him that you are strong willed and will NOT do anything you aren't comfortable with!! I bet that will make him like you even more because so many girls are easily influenced these days.
By the way, g-strings are a pain in the asss---literally:o)
2006-08-12 14:05:09 · answer #3 · answered by Weeber 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't give him the boot and find someone to respect you for who you are not wanting to have sex at such a young age. Keep what you have for that thing called real love and a couple of years down the road you will understand why all the advise you got was telling you to do the same thing.
2006-08-12 14:20:33 · answer #4 · answered by MISSREBEL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
y r u going out with him if hes not the kind of guy u wanna b w/ just causee hes 16 doesnt mean nothing u can find other 16 yr olds that r not in to having sex, hello dont do that to urself by doing something u dont want to, cause then itll scare u 4 life!!!do the right thing!!!
2006-08-12 16:01:06 · answer #5 · answered by band weinie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him no hunny ur much to yong and if anyone ever found out he could go to jail and most importently if ur pairents found out u dont know what they mite do and as for the g-string if u wanna ware it ware it its only under ware no 1 will c it but just make sure u dont do anythink stupid wiht that boy he is an idiot to even ask u to have sex with him ur much to yong wait for a few more years and if he wont wait till ur ready then he isnt worth sleepin with any way cause he doesnt respect u i hope i helped
2006-08-12 14:35:49 · answer #6 · answered by take_ur_sweet_time 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had sex for the first time at 14 and have regretted it my entire life (im now 23) i'm not still with the boy i was with at that age of course and wish that i would have saved such a special thing for someone who is more special to me i dont believe that you have to wait until marriage but i do believe that you should wait until your totally ready anyone who is pressuring you to do something you dont feel comfortable with is not worth being around let alone dating trust me if you wait you'll never regret it if you do it you may regret it
2006-08-12 14:08:14 · answer #7 · answered by subra55118 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all your to young to be dating u should wait till your at least 16 to start dating.and your to young to be wearing g-strings.As for your boyfriend you should have a talk with him and tell him that your not ready and if he keeps on pressuring you then break up with him.If he really loves you then he will understand.
2006-08-12 14:57:49 · answer #8 · answered by babygurljoey16 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say no. i'm not the most religeos person out there, but i do believe in virginity until marrage. If he's pressuring you, dump him, and don't wear g-strings until ur at least sixteen. don't be to hard, though. He's at that age where his hormones are out of control and he has a lot of peer presure.
2006-08-12 13:58:10 · answer #9 · answered by i ♥ sarcasm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesnt sound like your ready....tell him that hes putting too much pressure on you...... you need to be ready to face any consiquences that might happen, also you dont want to do something that you were pressured to do or something that later on you will regret...... to give in to that pressure.....talk to him about it and if he get upset, then maybe hes not the one for you, if he doesnt respect you then hes no good, and thats all he wants from you....guys are horny, and when they're that young they cant control it too well and all they want to do is ****..... so be careful, and make the right choice.....do what you feel is right...
2006-08-12 15:10:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋