My bf and I have been fighting and i have officially decided that in about two weeks I am going to pretty much leave for a weekend. I think it will resolve everything, and put into clear perspective what his intentions and wants are. Instead of all this drama.
Now, I do not plan on tell him to his face that Im going to leave. Should I tell him at all? Leave a note? A answereing machine message.
2006-08-12 06:40:11 · 11 answers · asked by Poestalker 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
This sounds like some kind of a test. You're only going for the weekend. Go and enjoy yourself. Leave him a note....
"gone for awhile"
2006-08-12 06:51:13 · answer #1 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't be a coward, tell him. If your roles were reversed, how would you feel? What would you think of him? Would you be willing to talk to someone after they bailed on you without a word?
Maybe you should review the Golden Rule mantra.
2006-08-12 13:48:13 · answer #2 · answered by Lilith 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
H-ll
No
just go have a fun adventure. Do not tell anyone except one trusted friend or relative.
2006-08-12 13:57:45 · answer #3 · answered by Wise Old Witch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be an adult and face him directly unless you fear for your personal safety.
You wouldn't be giving your relationship a fair chance if you didn't speak to him concerning your issues.
2006-08-12 13:50:59 · answer #4 · answered by dannyl410 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave a note.
2006-08-12 13:52:03 · answer #5 · answered by hardnose 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him, talk to him and see if you can resolve your problems then you won't have to leave....running away solves NOTHING
2006-08-12 13:54:42 · answer #6 · answered by lyndles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Email him just before you leave so he isn't worrying about you all weedend.
2006-08-12 13:44:13 · answer #7 · answered by Dennis Fargo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him anyway you want. He's lucky if you decide to tell him at all.
2006-08-12 13:50:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go, see how much he worries about you. You'll find out his true feeling for you....
2006-08-12 13:45:32 · answer #9 · answered by pepenbuffy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him upfront, email or by phone is stupid although most of us guys do that anyway
2006-08-12 13:47:09 · answer #10 · answered by leon11357 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋