Because you don't know who they actually are, maybe they are fake. And you can get easily hooked up on this. Perhaps you even waste all your hopes and time chatting to this fake person.
What is your view on this? Have you done it before? if so, where did it get you?
2006-08-12 06:39:30 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It's bad - and I am tired of people saying things about their on-line boyfriend or girlfriend...there is NO SUCH THING. Anyway find someone real.
2006-08-12 06:42:27 · answer #1 · answered by doc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you on medication? You dont state in this post how long you have been diagnosed as being bipolar, but in your answer to anothers question, you mention that you have been bipolar for 10 years. So if this is the case, I can only assume you have been married for over 10 years since here in this question you claim to have found out your condition while being married to your wife. 10 years is a long time. Do you love your wife? If you truly love your wife and want this marriage to work out, you have to be strong and make the conscious decision that she is more important to you than the high you may get of flirting with others online.Only then will you be able to put into action the efforts you will need to do in order to save this marriage. If you are not already, get treatment. whether its a mood stabalizer/ anti depressant, what have you. follow the doctors orders. Then simply turn off the computer. Pay more atention to your wife. She's the one that truly cares for you and has been there for you through it all. ( sickness and in health) Perhaps a little marriage counseling is in order..? Or have her come with you to your therapy sessions with your psychiatrist. I find that people are more likely to be outwardly affectionate/sexual or irritable when in their 'manic' phase than when in there depressive state, so as long as you can recognize when you are in your 'manic' state, take the proper medication, and stay away from the computer or any other temptation, you should be fine. You have a great support system right there in your wife. Do not use bipolar as an excuse for adultery, then you give us all who have the condition, including I, a bad name. I know it can be difficult. But if you love your wife as you say you do, than you will do whatever it takes. Good luck.
2016-03-26 23:09:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been on a few of the datting sites and I have met some very nice looking and over nice ladies. But I have as well met a few strange ones too.
I have met less that lie, but I only date females so I don't know about if males lie I don't.
I have had a three women send me a pick of them that was years old when they was good lookin and I have had one send me a pic of her but was better lookin in person.
Nothing bad about on line datting or flirting but you just have to keep in mind it is real life. These are real people just like the people you meet in real life. Oh.. Maybe that is because it is real life. Be carful you never know it could be the right one. Or not.
2006-08-12 06:50:48 · answer #3 · answered by Don K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you enjoy it, it isn't a waste of time. Not every date you have in person is going to work out either, you just have fun and don't expect anything. I married someone I met here online about 4 years ago and have made several good friends that were former dates or just good people to talk to.
2006-08-12 06:45:45 · answer #4 · answered by curiousandsmiley 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if the person is real i think that it is a great thing you can get to know a person really well and i think it is better then meeting the person right away
if you suspect that they are fake then they probally are i know what you mean although i have not gotten involved with anyone like that
talk to them and pay attention to how they react or respond:)
2006-08-12 06:45:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Me and my boyfriend met online, we have lived together for over 7 years now. Now the catch is this.....he also cheated on me with a girl online and he went to meet her to Spain!!!
Is it safe??? I don't think so, There are too many people out there just looking for weird things, so WATCH OUT!!
2006-08-12 06:48:03 · answer #6 · answered by fun 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i meant my love on here and we have already meant it has been a year just chatting and seeing each other we are now getting engaged. of coarse it could also be a bad thing for other people to do it i just took a chance
2006-08-12 06:47:09 · answer #7 · answered by annie_1_2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is only what you make of it... You have advantages and disadvantages in all aspects of how and where ya meet people...Regaurdless of it being internet,bar,store,church,etc.etc. Just be alert and dont' let your gaurd down to early....
2006-08-12 06:48:58 · answer #8 · answered by kitten30fl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've flirted with other ppl on the internet and I think it's harmless.....watch out for the creeps though....
2006-08-12 06:43:21 · answer #9 · answered by jmt4127 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i have with a fake person so i dont anymore
2006-08-12 06:46:03 · answer #10 · answered by just-a-hunny-12 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋