I am not close to my sister in law by any means but I know that her husband is cheating on her.....She called crying today asking if my husband knew anything and my husband wasnt home.I told her that I didnt know anything about it....but I do.Should I tell her what I know or just keep out of it ???What would you do???
2006-08-12 06:36:27 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I will suggest to talk to your hubby about this first tell him how you find out and that she needs to know what it is going on...He as her brother will be able to tell her or maybe both of you together that way she will not think that you are making this up.... I had a situation like this where I was honest and things where worst she Thought I was lying & making ups stories.....But if not just stay away if you don't have a good relationship with her..... :)
2006-08-12 07:10:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a tough one. Really, you should stay out unless you are sure of the cheating and have proof. But then there is the fact she may end up being in denial and end up hating you more.
However, if the table was turned on you and she knew something....wouldn't you want to know?
2006-08-12 13:43:50 · answer #2 · answered by bella_mexicana_rellena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell your husband and let him be the one to break the news to her, otherwise you may be in the middle, with your husband (who I am sure you've gotten most of your info from) not being able to trust you with anymore information. Hopefully, he will do whats best and that would be the truth.
2006-08-12 14:08:18 · answer #3 · answered by rdhedhottie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. That's a tough one. If I were your sister in law, it would be good that you told me, but at the same time, I dunno if it's your place to tell her, either. Maybe you should talk to your husband about it and tell him that you are thinking of telling her about it. I wouldn't tell the SIL without consulting your husband first, though, because I'd be afraid it might cause friction between the two of you.
2006-08-12 13:43:07 · answer #4 · answered by Amanda K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell the poor thing so she doesnt have to go through with it any longer and waiste her life on a sorry piece of sh**
2006-08-12 16:14:23 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really don't think its your place to tell her but you can tell your husband and let him handle it. Since they are brother and sister it would be easier if he dealt with that so that she doesn't think you are trying to hurt her.
2006-08-12 13:40:20 · answer #6 · answered by druhill119 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send her an anonymous message using an email account just for that.
2006-08-12 13:41:45 · answer #7 · answered by Dennis Fargo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd be truthful. Wouldn't you want her to be truthful? You're not doing her any favor by with holding the facts.
2006-08-12 13:45:45 · answer #8 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TELL if she found out you knew and didn't tell she'd be furious and you'd feel guilty
2006-08-12 13:39:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay out of it.
2006-08-12 13:40:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋