sine age of 13 i started reading erotic texts. at 16 i watched my first porn movie. I really like sex. Now i am 17. I never had sex before but i want to. But i am afraid that i will become a slut coz i dont think i will be only satisfied with one man. Is this normal or is this sex addiction?
2006-08-12 06:19:56 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
I am 17 year old female
2006-08-12 06:31:16 · update #1
Wow.. I've met my match LOL ;)
j/k
Yeah.. it's as normal.. well heh.. definition of normal is?
Anyway, personally. .I'd try to refrain from sex with others.. or find just one partner.. with all the diseases and risks.. find another that's as active as you.. and stick with them. Whether it's for love or lust.. at least you'll just have the one.
That's what I'd do if I were in your shoes anyway.
iz horny as anything at 11 or something. Beat the monkey all my life til i was 24 or so. Glad I did.. otherwise I'd have so many homeless children and paying child support.. I'd have to have 10 full time jobs and I'd still be living under a bridge.
Got me a partner.. thought I loved her.. sex wasn't all that great.. so I kept to myself so-to-speak. Then I moved on and am with my wonderful wife. Sex is sweeettt with her. She touches me and I melt ;) She's as far from horny as I've ever seen.. but that's okay. I care for her more than sex matters. And if I did find some girl that was crazy like you.. I'd never get anything done anyway ;)
2006-08-12 06:24:32 · answer #1 · answered by game buddee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you can be addicted to sex without having sex in the first place, i think you obsessed with masturbation. It's pretty normal to think about about, I'm 18 (never had sex) and yeah I have thought about it and have even gotten' close with my boyfriend. I know i probably sound like a mom when i say this but even though you may want to, you should wait for the right person because what if you sleep with them and then their done with you how would you feel? I have friends who have had this happen~ My cousin thought she would be addicted with sex when she finally got some, she not. Like I said, I don't think you can be addiction to something you have never had.
2006-08-12 14:24:45 · answer #2 · answered by Mesa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So far what you have described to us doesn't sound like sex addiction. It sounds like a normal adolescent who explored sexuality in a way that was available to her at the time. People who are sex addicts can't function normally in the world. Example: A person with an addiction to porn perhaps might not be able to have sex with another person unless he or she first looks at pornography.
2006-08-12 13:26:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't say if you were m ale or female. I will assume female and answer accordingly. You seem to indicate that you are still a virging and j ust curious, but if you start being an easy bed partner just because you want to try it your reputation will grow very quickly. Be very carefull and find someone close to your own age and be sure to exercise safe sex.
2006-08-12 13:28:31 · answer #4 · answered by jailenron 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you haven't had sex yet, it can't be sex addiction. At your age I think it's perfectly normal to have those thoughts. If you do decide to have sex, be very careful and use protection so you won't catch AIDS or any other STD's or an unwanted pregnancy.
Be very careful!!!
2006-08-12 13:40:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nah sounds like a normal 17 year old....make sure you at least get the first name of the person you have sex with....sometimes that is important...other times not!
2006-08-12 13:23:24 · answer #6 · answered by USuck79 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Addiction, yes, but it is more of the "havent done it/taboo thing. Once you have had a sexual relationship, and if this progresses, then yes, your a sex addict. but consider this, with everything in our TVs and Music suggesting sex, your def not alone.
2006-08-12 13:23:02 · answer #7 · answered by Common Sense 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it is an addiction ,i haven't got my end in for about a year and a half and its killing me
2006-08-12 13:22:57 · answer #8 · answered by bnsbeaver 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
its addiction
2006-08-12 13:23:22 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋