run away :(?

Question

all my life i have been treated like crap by my family and my sister beats on me all the time i am 15 and i wanna run away soo bad but then where should i go?? should i just run the streets???? i love my dad alot but i am tired of my sister what should i do?? kill myself or run away?? :(

Answer 1

Running away is not the answer, sweety. You need to talk with someone, school counselor, church counselor, friend's parents, someone who will listen and try to help you. You do need help, yes, but running away will ruin your life. You could be murdered, raped, homeless, hungry, desperate and become a prostitute, terrible things. Please do not run away. Seek help from other people. Seek help loudly!!

Answer 2

You need to talk to your Dad. If your sister is hurting you then you could have her removed by child services. If you love your Dad you would be breaking his heart by running away. More than likely if you start living on the streets you will probably become a prostitute addicted to crack or heroin. A 15 year old cannot get a real job or rent an apartment. And prostitution is a best case, you could easily get killed. As far as killing yourself, you might think it will make things better, but as long as you are alive you have a chance at happiness, if you are dead then you have no chance of anything. If you are so down that you don't care about yourself think about your Dad. It would destroy his whole life if you were gone. Seriously even if you don't want to talk to your Dad you can can social services and they will remove you or your sister from the home to a safe place.

Answer 3

DON'T KILL YOURELF! Your life is too precious to just lose it. Tell your dad about your sister. He might be able to help. You sit him down and tell him when your sister's not home about how she's treating you. I'm sure he can help you if you let him. If he doesn't listen, call the police, talk to the school counselor, tell your friends, do whatever you can to get help. Just, promise you won't kill yourself. Every life is important, no matter how bad it is. Don't run away either, running away from your problems doesn't make them go away, neither does killing yourself. It takes more courage to face your problems and fears than to run away. Take care and e-mail me any time if you need more support: [e-mail]

Answer 4

Seek help from a professional counselor (phycologist/phsychiatrist/preast/social services if nothing else) immediately!!!! Suicide is no answer to the problem. Running away will only put you in greater danger than you face from your sister right now. If you get along with your grandparents then perhaps you should ask them if you can stay with them to get out of the situation, if not them then perhaps another family member. But seek professional assistance about your feelings!!!!

Answer 5

If you runaway you will have a long and life full of ****. But if you kill yourself that would be very painful. I would suggest neither. Just report your sister to the police station. Tell your father what's going on.

But if i had to choose one of those i would run away and go live with my friend rather than kill myself.

Answer 6

though i do not have big sis but i too some times feel this way. to run away & to never look back.

but then would it be any help to run away like that or would even killing yourself would be a great solution. i cannot truely decide; but then who can unless the person has not gone through the same situation.
the only window i can see is to divert my attention from all the things making me go mad and concentrating on the things i like the best.

its difficult & sometimes we wish we would never have been born but now we are here instead of letting life make us mad lets make life mad! would luv to be your frnd.

Answer 7

I'd say run away, but you really shouldn't do neither. If you happen to have family close by like ur grandparents or something, run away to their house. Or run away to a friends house and explain to them everything and maybe they'll let you stay there for a while. I'm 15 too. So if u wanna talk [[e-mail]] u can e-mail me if u want.

Answer 8

Hi stacie,

I'm truly sorry about your situation. I understand how you feel...coz I have been through that situation myself. I had left my home when I was 13.
Its natural to feel that way when you are going through so much pain ...but you might just put yourself into a lot of trouble by running away...dont do that...not until you are old enough to live by yourself...
and dont think about suicide...you are very precious...your life means a lot...thats why you were born...your life has a purpose and a meaning...dont throw it away...ever...
you mean a lot to life...suffering has a divine purpose...you'll realise it someday...
what you are going through is rough weather...it will pass..I know it will coz I went through it at your age...it lasted for a very long time, but it did eventually pass...
now when I look back into it...I have so much in me because of what I went through...
Life puts us in extraordinary situations to bring out extraordinary abilities in us!
and always know that you have the strength to live no matter how difficult it may seem...
if you are finding it difficult to handle your sister, just ignore her...
or try being nice to her....have you ever told her that you like her? love can do miraculous things...loving your family can make a lot of difference in your life...
small beautiful gestures can get you amazing results! give some nice gifts to everyone in your family! (they dont need to be expensive...but filled with love!)
things like that...
when you fill your heart with love...you can transform hell into heaven:)
try being a friend with your sister...smile at her:)
and dont worry much;)
you have a beautiful life ahead of you:)

please feel free to contact me if you like ...it would be my pleasure to be your friend...

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love,

~ Deepak.

Answer 9

Do neither of the above that you mentioned. Tell your dad what your sister is doing and tell him that you are serious! My brother was horribly mean to me when I was younger (I am 40 now). Just recently my mom told me that she didnt realize how badly my brother treated me and she wishes she would have done more about it when we were younger.

Answer 10

Dont run away,.. when i was 15 or 16 i ran away and it wasnt fun. Im 20 now and i wished that i hadnt. Nothing happened but i was scared and alone. i got lost and they found me 1 week later.