My boyfriend and I have been together for four years. He had to move to New Mexico in December to accept a new job, but will be back to Arizona next summer. Long distance has been tough, but I THOUGHT it was making us stronger. However, about 2-3 months ago, we had a big fight and seperated temp. He met another girl and started dating her. We recently reconciled, and he told me about 'Regina.' He is 26, she is 50. I told him that she has to go, and he agreed. That was about 6 weeks ago.
Last night, I called and left a message on his voice mail. Something crazy happened, and I started hearing a message from her, from last night. She was saying how much she misses him (because he is on a business trip this weekend), and how much she cant wait to see him when she gets back.
I was furious, because obviously he lied to me about ending things with her. I called him back and he answered. He said it must be some mistake.
Am I asking to much to ask him to end all communication with her?
2006-08-12 06:07:56 · 8 answers · asked by PRETTYGIRL 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think that you need to give up on that relationship for starters.
When ever something like this happens it rarely works out and you will probably always wonder if there is another women on the side for him...
You need to feel secure in a relationship and it doesn't seem that you are in this relationship, alone with trust, communication.
Mine blaimed me when he started hanging with another women and we weren't broken up at the time, and he always throws it in my face.....Believe me when I say maybe there is someone else out their for you that will repect you and treat you the way you should be treated.
And it is always easier to give someone else advice than it is to take your own advice.lol
good luck
2006-08-12 06:16:42 · answer #1 · answered by Not a Daddys Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL. You requested, sweetie. you've were given no man or woman accountable yet your self. under no circumstances ask a question you do not really favor to understand the answer to. you won't be able to get mad at him for being problem-free. Be satisfied you're a minimum of tied for first position. He could've stated you've been the worst he ever had. end being jealous. you've both had sex with persons, some large, some no longer so large. merely concentration on what both of you've at the same time. And btw, it makes entire experience that sex with 2 distinct human beings will be large in 2 fullyyt distinct options.
2016-11-24 21:45:13 · answer #2 · answered by casalenda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no u r not. but to me it looks like he wants his cake and eat it too. give him and ultimatum her or me. and if he still denies it then play a game with him. tell him that u r moving with him to new mex. and see how he reacts if he tells u not to or is negative abt it then u know this is still happening, maybe u should move there if u really love him that way u can keep an eye on him and then decide what is the next step. maybe u need to go get urself some one else who will not cheat on u
2006-08-12 06:13:51 · answer #3 · answered by in ur face 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, your are right. But as far as the message, it could have been old, it could have been recent. And if it was recent, she just might miss him. Give him the benefit of the doubt, he will be hom real soon. Or even better, pop up on him. But be sure to make hotel reservations, just in case he is lying to you....
2006-08-12 06:23:55 · answer #4 · answered by luv him 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let reality hit you in the face to many more times. It's over!! If he lied to once he lie to you again.
2006-08-12 06:13:56 · answer #5 · answered by lariat_sonata 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No not too much, should ask him to make the final decision of either her or you.
2006-08-12 06:16:52 · answer #6 · answered by choy_daniel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt ASK him to do anything. He isnt worth any more of your time. Be rid of him. He deserves to be with his mama.
I say good riddance.
2006-08-12 06:17:30 · answer #7 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No and if he doesn't you should cease communication with him and move on. Not worth it.
2006-08-12 06:12:20 · answer #8 · answered by nimbleminx 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋