I just found out that he started this business 2 months ago. Because suddenly he was coming up with money even though his paycheck would be long gone. I hate it that he is doing this what should I do?
2006-08-12 06:07:06 · 23 answers · asked by Medical and Business Information 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Does he know you know about it? I would confront him, let him know you feel it is wrong and hate it. Does he have a problem with sex addiction? He may need help, counseling, or such. My suggestion, if you wish to keep things going well in your marriage, is not to scream at him about it but go at it objectively, but truly letting him know how you feel. Good luck to you!
2006-08-12 06:11:16 · answer #1 · answered by sistermoon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can see why you'd be upset about it. It's not a very "nice" business. And, he didn't tell you he was planning it. The latter is the larger problem, IMHO. This is something that husbands and wives should discuss.
Clearly, he is trying to be a better provider. You said that his paycheck was "long gone". He's trying to make up the slack. It would be nice if he could do it in a "cleaner" business. However, the business he has chosen is not illegal.
You need to sit down and talk to him about it and let him know how you feel. Perhaps the two of you can think of another way to make money -- together.
2006-08-12 06:45:35 · answer #2 · answered by Otis F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That would depend on your stance on pornography. If you hate it enough not to spend the money resulting from it then take a stand. Tell him what you think. However, he probably knows you don't approve or he wouldn't have hidden it from you for two months. You really can't control what he does. You can only control your reaction to it. If it were my husband, and he refused to stop doing it... I'd see how long he could stay in "business" with bad things happening to his computer on a daily basis. *evil grin* But that's just me.
2006-08-12 06:19:14 · answer #3 · answered by nimbleminx 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use this as an opportunity to bond with him and rekindle that lost spark. Ask him if you can get involved, maybe pose for a few pics. This way you will both have a feeling of satisfaction when the money comes rolling in.
2006-08-12 06:10:48 · answer #4 · answered by CW 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hay, it is a business and he is bringing home money. He is not doing anything illegal unless he is selling pics of minors. Enjoy the profits.
2006-08-12 06:09:18 · answer #5 · answered by Alaska 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious? Hmmm...! Talk to him about it and tell him how you feel... He should understand and respect you ...
And ask him what he has been doing with the money as well... What was his intention? You have a right to have reservations about this... Best wishes to you...♥
2006-08-12 06:34:43 · answer #6 · answered by . 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dirty pictures of what? If it's child porn, pack up and run for your life. If it's pics of just himself, so what? If it's pics of him and another guy, run for your life, and if it's pics of him and another woman, either join them or kick her aside and take her place in front of the camera. Enjoy the money, honey.
2006-08-12 06:45:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey ya!
It's the latest thing that somebody can to do!
I understand u,cuz it's ridiculous!
You must say him that u hate this and that u don't approve such business.
2006-08-12 06:11:07 · answer #8 · answered by woo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Divorce would be a really good start! See an attorney now to protect yourself financially. Sadly you have married a real slime.
2006-08-12 06:10:42 · answer #9 · answered by papricka w 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are these pictures of you?
Personally, hes up to no good and I would tell him to stop and put him on a red alert... basically make him agree to be grounded. If he doesn't agree go to your mothers.
2006-08-12 06:09:01 · answer #10 · answered by Poestalker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋