What do you think is the right age to get married and have kids in your opinon? My cousin asked me this question, and I wanted to get other people's view on this.
2006-08-12 05:50:53 · 21 answers · asked by Taliea2006 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
after u finish college ofcourse. then at around 24 u can get married. after that take ur time and settle in and when u feel its time to have kids, go for it
2006-08-12 06:04:50 · answer #1 · answered by jelly1505 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
this good go in a few different dierctions. First in mostly depends on the individual and the maturity of the person. I will say marrige is a very serious commitment, It is work! you don't coast through it or it will fall to peices. there has to be alot of things that are very impoant, respect at all times/non negosible. unconditional love, no one is perfect and you need to decide if you can live with the neperfectios of the other person. these are just few small few things that need to be considered before marriage. but as the a good age, I feel around 24 or higher. most at that age are most likely ready verses some one younger. you see, marriage is not play house. hope I was able to help you out.
2006-08-12 13:05:13 · answer #2 · answered by RAINBOW 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get married after you have party, traveled, done all the things you wanted to do as a single person. There is really no set age to get married since people don't all do the same things at the same age.
However try to have kids before you are 30 so you can still enjoy your kids and have enough energy for them while you still young.
2006-08-12 12:57:06 · answer #3 · answered by kinito_2000_1999 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
that's truely a personal thing...i myself got married at 21 and now at 25 i already have a 2 year old. It worked for me though. Not everyone would be happy in that situation. Some people can't even fathom the idea of marriage until they are atleast 30 and kids are out of the question. It all depends on who you are and what goals you have set for your future.
2006-08-12 12:56:29 · answer #4 · answered by Passionfire 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
about 21
2006-08-12 12:53:20 · answer #5 · answered by angel_qandil 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I dont feel it's altogether a matter of age in years, but rather maturity.
Let's face it, some people NEVER mature. :(
And then there are those who have a keen sense of maturity at a very young age.
However, life's experiences play a large role in maturity. Thus, I'm of the opinion that one should not even think of marriage before they're 25!
2006-08-12 13:04:54 · answer #6 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Age is not a measure of maturity. But is often used as a reliable measure of maturity. There are some people who are not ever mature enough to get married. But there are some couples who as teen-agers are relaible, responsible, and mature enough to handle the responsibilities of marriage and parenthood. I think that it is best to wait until after college or the military and you have some life experience to offer a partner.
2006-08-12 12:57:54 · answer #7 · answered by dpon62 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I believe the best age to get married and have kids, is after your have excited college, or technical school.. and you have a firm grip on your career.
this could be anywhere from 24-32. It's situational per person, I wouldn't recommend having children during college, or directly after while trying to get locked into a job.
2006-08-12 12:54:01 · answer #8 · answered by tank20760 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
55
2006-08-12 12:54:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think once your done with all the college you need and get settled in with a career ... so about 30- 35 would be about right. Results may vary.
2006-08-12 12:55:24 · answer #10 · answered by ujenfo 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There is no "right" age. Some people are mature enough at 19 and some people will never be mature enough- not even when they are 80.
2006-08-12 12:55:38 · answer #11 · answered by cranky_gut 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋