one day i asked my mom if i could go to a friends house and she always says no then we end up getting in a fight how do i help that too make my relashinship with her healthy and successful???
2006-08-12 05:45:40 · 5 answers · asked by Kenna S 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Try to see your mom's side of the problem. Of course your mom has to be willing to see your side too. If you have a good mom (and you probably do), she is only trying to do what is best for you (in her opinion) and sometimes what is best for us and not what we want. So she has to weigh doing what is best for you with letting you make your own decisions (and you taking the responsibility of accepting the consequences). Also, realize that saying 'yes' to your kids is easy...saying 'no' is harder and usually shows how much you care about them. Also, want a good relationship with your mom, try to surprise her with sincere comments like ' thanks mom', 'I appreciate you mom' and 'I know you want the best for me'...stuff parents rarely get to hear. Or just give her a hug now and then or even a small gift. Appreciate her and count your blessings. If you keep a positive and grateful attitude, you will be surprised how much better your relationship will be. Good luck and God bless.
2006-08-12 05:54:58 · answer #1 · answered by redbird5 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe for some reason your mom doesn't trust you or think you're mature enough [or maybe she's in denial]. But next time this happens, show her that you are mature and just accept the no. and if you ask another time to go over, ask why in a calm voice. Tell her why you feel you should be able to go, calmly.
Have a conversation with your mom.
And the idea of having your friends come to your house is a good idea. Try that one too. Good luck! Mother-Daughter relationships are hard during the teen years.
2006-08-14 18:37:08 · answer #2 · answered by SmelleySteenky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you see her in the house doing nothing talk to her about your friends, if she will not let your friends over see if they can come over to your house so she can know them better. She will grow to trust your trust as much as she does you =]
2006-08-12 05:49:12 · answer #3 · answered by Kimber 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
next time tell your mom that u r coming out with me i am sure there will be no problem then
2006-08-12 06:25:43 · answer #4 · answered by kevin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her and find out
2006-08-12 08:35:01 · answer #5 · answered by [[you're only selling sex now]] 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋