that they kind of "forget" about their girls. My boyfrined and his best friend has hired a car for the weekend as they both decided to go and travel around a bit. Anyway, I know that my boyfriend likes to spend time with his friends and I know that this particular friend is very important for him. So when he told me about his trip, I didn't think that I would hear from him this weekend as I thought that if men are together, that means he is doing his own thing and I am doing my own. But I was very happy when I came back yesterday evening from work to receive a sweet message from him. He was asking me how I was doing and how my evening was going and he was telling me about a place they went to visit. I though it was really sweet but I must say I was quite surprised to hear from him.in a nice way of course. What do you think?
2006-08-12 05:08:51 · 8 answers · asked by violet b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
out of sight doesn't mean out of mind. we need "guy time" with our friends, but us good guys will still give a call to tell you we love ya. that way we won't be bugged by you when we're kicking it with the guys :P
2006-08-12 05:12:01 · answer #1 · answered by Terry Legendary 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think.. your boyfriend... might.. be.. gay.
Yup.
Definitely.
All the signs are there.
No hetero male would ever do something like that. Okay.. he may not be gay.. but only part way.. like bi or something.
Don't worry though.. sounds like he has just the one. I wouldn't be too worried.
OH WAIT! I'm sorry.. you said boyfriend.. you're not married yet.. Oh nevermind. If you two were married, then I'd be worried.. but heck.. you're still in puppy love.
It's fairly common.
But.. to call you while he's away without you asking.. okay.. maybe he is bi. I take it all back.. doesn't matter if he's married or not..
Well.. at least he's not with another girl.. or maybe he is.. so he felt guilty.. and that's why he called.
Either way., the only reason he called was coz of guilt.
Okay I'm just kidding.. the real truth?
This one is a keeper. Even if he does like the guy LOL ;) Sounds like a nice guy to me. I don't even do nice things like that. He put me to shame.. Sheesh!
If I were you, I'd do something nice in return.. and thank him for thinking of you.
You're not suspicious.. you're happy.
And no, there's nothing wrong with it.
And no, don't give him space when he comes back.. love him to death.. surprise him with something and give him some good luvin' ;)
And please don't assume he's just feeling guilty. Honesetly, the words that you relayed.. they don't show guilt. If he was feeling guilty, he wouldn't be telling you about all the fun he's having! He's happy and wants to share it with you. That ain't guilt.
Nobody on here can tell you to give him space or not. Some are needy.. some are not. Only you know. He sounds like the in-between perfect one if you ask me. Wants lotsa luvin' but not so much it gags him. :)
If you're worried about bugging him too much.. just send him a text message or something like that. and NOT only when you want something. Somebody I know does that and it's sorta like she only calls if she wants something. When she does call just to say she loves me.. lots of times it worries me LOL
2006-08-12 12:16:13 · answer #2 · answered by game buddee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means he's happy you let him go and didn't bug him about it. You gave him space, so he's being nice in return. Maybe he's felling a little guilty for spending the weekend away from you.
I don't think you should worry about it. Why are you surprised he's being nice to you? Is it rare?
Try to know more before becoming more suspicious about it.
2006-08-12 12:14:04 · answer #3 · answered by Nina E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that was the sweetes thing he could have done he must be truly happy with you and that is special i believe you have awinner keep up the good work
2006-08-12 12:22:29 · answer #4 · answered by Cheryl T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all men are single-minded, we can actually chew gum and walk the walk at the same time. He probably was talking about you to his freind, probably good stuff mind you and during his conversation decided to call and say something nice to you. We don't always talk sh1t about our significant others.
2006-08-12 12:13:10 · answer #5 · answered by avidcyclist4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even though he's out with his boys he still thinks about you. They may even have a conversation about your relationship. Everyone knows girls talk about stuff like that but believe it or not, guys do too.
2006-08-12 12:11:25 · answer #6 · answered by renee1724 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congratulations. I would say you have a keeper there. Some people mature faster than others and you have one that sounds like he no longer has his head stuck you-know-where like most men do.
2006-08-12 12:12:25 · answer #7 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he was feeling guilty.
2006-08-12 12:16:32 · answer #8 · answered by Velociraptor 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋