i havent had my periods for 1 year and been with my partner for 3 years and still havnt got pregnant been to the docters and done all the tests but they dont say anything. can anyone help me if they have the same or similar problem
2006-08-12 05:04:06 · 18 answers · asked by amanda_please_2005 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
It could be stress related. You could be trying too hard.
OR
He could be the reason you aren't getting pregnant. Has he been tested to make sure his soldiers are armed?
2006-08-19 19:07:34 · answer #1 · answered by I love my husband 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't really understand how you've been to doctors over this matter and they "don't say anything?" I had the opposite of what you had, I bled for over year (everyday) and tried 3 different medications to shrink a fibroid tumor. This kind of tumor can either prevent or induce bleeding. Once they were removed I now have a normal period (every 28 days) and have become very fertile!! Some are missed through ultrasounds or internals, just go to another doctor or maybe you've seen the right doctor but asked the wrong questions? (or described the symptoms in the wrong way? You do need to get it checked and resolved, because if I would of let it go for about 1 more month (the doctor said) it could of turned cancerous. (my phv levels were very high)
2006-08-12 05:14:29 · answer #2 · answered by brighteyez386 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not normal for a fertile woman not having her periods for a year. If you are too skinny, you may not have your periods. If Barbie would exist, she wouldn't have her periods. Woman in concentration camps in the 40's didn't had their periods due to unhealthiness and lack of food and water. The fact that you don't have your periods is very concerning. it is as if you dont produce the right hormones to control your cycle. as said before, maybe the problem lies in your thyroid gland. TSH (thyroid specific hormone) is a blood test which can say if your thyroid is fine, or not. if the problem is from hormones, i suggest to consult an endocrinologist. your boyfriend can also have a spermogram. why is it that every time a girl cant get pregnant, we always think shes the one with the problem? this test is really simple and it wont hurt him! consult a doctor togheter.
well, either way, good luck.
2006-08-12 05:18:29 · answer #3 · answered by valy_4 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my monthlys are all over the place to and always have been i have had two children but it did take longer then it should i would like more but it just isn't happening i think you should go back to your gp and ask for a blood test on your thyroid and to be seen by a doctor at the hospital that can do the right tests i must say the more you stress about it the less chance you have of becoming pregnant just go through the right tests and dont take no from the gp stress how upset you are
2006-08-12 05:34:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has your partner been tested? He might have a low sperm count. You have to handle this gently because men have fragile egos.
Why do you want to get pregnant before you are married? No commitment? He could leave at any time and hang you out to dry, and he will have no legal rights to the baby. Funny how this works - because then when they get old and sick, they wonder why the kids don't want to be bothered with them.
Think.
2006-08-12 05:11:54 · answer #5 · answered by TheHumbleOne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i replaced into 10 days late till now I confirmed useful on an early being pregnant try. i would not spend extra funds on tests and in simple terms wait and notice... what's completed is accomplished, superb suited? From what you defined, I wager you're actually not pregnant!.. enable this be a lesson in case you do not want a toddler superb suited now! good luck.
2016-10-01 23:55:02 · answer #6 · answered by ribbs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stress perhaps? Although I doubt it would last for such a long period of time.
My sister experienced similar problems, it was discovered she had polycystic ovarian syndrome and problems with her thyroid also. She took kelp tablets and a few other things suggested by her naturopath.
Maybe try a naturopath - they are often a lot better with these things than doctors, plus much healthier alternatives!
Good luck
2006-08-12 05:06:47 · answer #7 · answered by Woohoo! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm supporting you all the way,
I believe in you,
I believe in your endless possibilities.
Please read:
Womens Bodies Womens Wisdom by Christine Northrup.
-How are you on coffee/meat/salt/tobacco/presc... or recreational drugs/alcohol?
take them out of your body &life as an act of selflove and respect
-What are your belief systems?
You can treat what you have in many ways,
chemically, intentionally, foodwise and energetically
a combination is usually best.
Please call Alfons Ven for support in your proces.
He can help.
His cure has done incredible things for me.
Please try tapping as selfhelp.
The manual is free on www.emofree.com.
Or see a therapist which uses this technique.
I'm very sorry that I've created this,
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2006-08-19 23:43:11 · answer #8 · answered by franslaimbock 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
every woman has a fertile cycle where she can get pregnant usually 12-16 days after she has started her period. obviously you are not on any birth control and neither is your hubby just keep on trying and you should get pregnant with in the year good luck
2006-08-12 05:07:25 · answer #9 · answered by oceanlady580 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I find it hard to believe that the doctor you went too didnt' say anything. Dont think a doctor will say "oops, sorry can't help you. have a good day. bye bye now". But one thing for sure is that if you don't ovulate you can't get pregnant. (menstration is a sign that you are ovulating)
2006-08-12 05:15:24 · answer #10 · answered by gillamacs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋