you been having a rough time lately by the sound of it
2006-08-13 04:52:00
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answered by Anonymous
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For every child "stolen" by a woman, there's ten fathers abandoning their children. When a woman is down and out and single and stuck with a baby, I don't think she would go through all that for cash. How many single moms do you know that are rich because of child support checks? Get with the program, buddy. I don't care that you run three times a week. That doesn't make you smart.
No, men will not always give women what they want. What they want is to be treated like people and not objects, and men are still treating women like objects. And you say women are abusive? State the population for battered men's shelters alongside battered women's shelters. Oh right, there are no battered men's shelters. Know why? It's the men doing the abusing.
You're spoiled and selfish and you need to grow up.
2006-08-12 13:39:25
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answer #2
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answered by Sebastian 2
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Sounds to me like you're more bitter than we are. I don't use men. Never have. In fact, for a long time, I was the bread winner of my family and I supported my husband, who was a stay at home dad. I'm sorry if women have hurt you in the past, but know this: Our children are not pawns for us to make money off of. That's ridiculous. Now I wouldn't doubt that there are some women out there who do that partly for the money, but my child's health and safety are top priority. Don't post a ridiculous questions such as this until you find someone who treats you so well. Did you have an unhappy childhood? Did your parent's divorce? I'm sorry for whatever happened to you, but it's no excuse to take it out on the entire population of women that way. We aren't all like that.
2006-08-12 12:03:21
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answer #3
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answered by Autumn_Anne 5
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We are all still living with the, um, issues brought on by feminism in our society. It's not just you. The whole thing was started when a lazy 'homemaker' named Betty Friedan started hanging out with Communist sympathisers in Berkeley...40 years later, what has it got them you ask? Well...
1. Preferential hiring and job promotion
2. Preferential government program/health care/welfare etc.
3. Family court dominance. (Custody, support, visitation etc.)
4. Socialogical reverence. i.e. they are now big heroes, while we are now just villians or fools.
5. A sense of superiority (mainly the actual feminists are like this. A lot of good women accept men as equals).
6. A huge compassion gap in public opinion.
But what has it cost them?... Peace, happiness, stability, sanity, their considerable life expectancy advantage, men liking them. I think all these costs can be summarized in one word: marriage.
It's hard to say if they really came out ahead. I guess if they truly hate us (like the feminist literature, pop culture etc. seem to indicate), they've done a great thing for themselves. They've unburdened themselves as wives. But if they actually love us and want to be our wives, then I guess they better start backtracking. Which, I believe they are....finally!
2006-08-12 14:13:25
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answered by Anonymous
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Do men want to give us children? I think there is more than enough of a population breach for you to be asking such idiotic questions pertaining to our "womanhood" and the choices we make as women. Regaining control over our bodies is something that you will not understand unless you are really concerned with progression. You are more concerned with what makes us good mothers to understand anything at this point. You are more concerned with how to suppress and oppress us to understand anything at this point.
Abusive women?
Gimmie a break!
Do you have any idea how you making us out to be bad oppresses women even more? Of course not, you're too concerned with your own maleness and how well read you are.
You have absolutely no idea what women of different races, cultures, classes, abilities and ages have to deal with on a daily basis due to living in a imperialÂist white-supremacist capitalist patriarchy. All you do is spew your own loathing of women in the guise of the captivity of beauty. You refuse to see how women are shacked by oppression on a daily basis because you are too self involved in your maleness and all the priviledges it gives you.
Don't insult our intelligence by coming on here and saying you are well read and trying to prove that.
When women stand up for ourselves and try to push beyond what society sets out for us (allows us to do), we are met with people like yourself. The ones who try to fill people's heads with illusions based on a male perspective while totally cancelling out our experiences. Because, of course, you being well read holds more validity then what we go through because it's based on your male perspective.
"How could we be so stupid? Poor men....we are abusive! Wow, you are well read! You sound like a great guy! Maybe you're right about women. I mean, look how much you know!"
Is that what you are expecting? Cause if you are, then you've come to the wrong place.
You've come to the wrong place if you expect to be accepted while attacking women of vast backgrounds and experiences based on what you "think" you know.
Don't come in here spouting your "intelligence" when you are really about oppressing women.
Don't come in here while talking about our "beauty" when you are really about marginalizing women.
Don't come in here spewing "abusive women" when you are really about making us invisible.
Don't come in here trying to make people buy into your ploy.
Don't come in here saying how well read you are, as if this holds any validity to your claims about "womanhood".
All you are doing is "intellectualizing our womanhood" to make it easier for your masculinity.
Take your vast knowledge and shove it where the sun don't shine.
2006-08-12 12:36:27
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answered by Victoria R 3
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Well, from your question and all the ignorant comments that follow, I've gained nothing except a bunch of useless knowledge. None of that applies to me. I've been separated for over 2 years from my husband and he hasn't given me a dime to support his daughter. Although, I have his insurance card for her doctor appts., but he doesn't help pay the bill. I wouldn't dare ask him for anything as long as I can support her myself, there's no sense in taking his money just so I can be a trifling biatch. Not ALL women are like you describe, nor are all men. You can't possibly judge a whole group of people under one category, we're all individuals.
2006-08-12 13:30:22
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answered by Shining Ray of Light 5
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What are you talking about, dude?
Women are AWESOME. Without them, I would never be able to get my laundry done. Plus, where else would I put my beer when I'm watching the Knicks' game?
In the tradition of the ancient Greeks, you are probably a gay nerd with a subconscious desire to be trans-gendered. Get some help, dude.
2006-08-12 12:07:05
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answered by EddieMora 2
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Oh dear, oh dear Mr. Smile - you sound very bitter. We're not all the same you know - there's lots of nice women out there. I hope you meet one soon - and give her the chance to show she's not like the picture of women you've painted here.
2006-08-12 12:00:54
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answered by mad 7
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sounds like you dealing with some demons all women arent like that im not i tell you what i want really and i give as well as i take 50/50 no games as for children mine are my life and i support them fully just me and i dont expect anyone else to.
2006-08-12 12:37:37
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answered by Anonymous
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Dude you need to take a trip to, Happy Acres Rest Home
:o)
2006-08-12 12:04:38
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answered by Anonymous
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