just becouse my boyfreiend gave me a small tube shirt they wont let me go to the mall alone to buy my own clothe
2006-08-12 04:46:54 · 8 answers · asked by Marie B 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Fashion & Accessories
Shove the shirt into the back of your closet. Tube tops are way trashy.
Apologize to your parents and explain that you didn't buy it. They may not like the boyfriend, but chances are that he won't be around forever anyway.
Then take your mom to the mall or wherever to shop with you. No matter how embarrassed you are, this works. I know from experience. Try on clothes that you like and see how she feels about them. After a couple of trips, she'll start to trust your judgment again. If you are picking out trashy stuff, then maybe you need to compromise on your clothing choices until college. You are probably too young to be wearing them anyway.
2006-08-12 05:14:52 · answer #1 · answered by welches_grape_jelly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bring them to the mall with you a time or two and point out some things you like but know they would approve of- stay away from stores they don't like or if you want to get adventurous, bring them to a store they aren't fond of but show them things in that store they would like. The point is to ensure trust and when they trust that you will buy decent clothing, go for it! Don't buy trashy clothes or some they won't like but impress them with your decisions.
2006-08-12 11:57:40 · answer #2 · answered by kaileejb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may need to be patient for a while, and choose your clothes with Mum until she has regained her confidence in your judgement. Try to understand that your parents are concerned for your welfare, and don't want to see their lovely daughter wearing clothes which could be seen as provocative. I'm sure you and Mum will come to a compromise solution sooner or later - just hang in there, stay calm, and don't push things.
2006-08-12 11:55:25 · answer #3 · answered by mad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your parents for a second chance or work up their trust untill they let you go shopping alone. I am sure your mom would really enjoy going shopping with you and you can get close you like, but still fit your moms ok line.
2006-08-12 13:00:29 · answer #4 · answered by nurf turf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sit down and have a chat with them.find out why they don't like your clothes and then compromise. agree to wear certain shirts if they let you wear certain pants. after awhile they should trust you more and let you shop for yourself. also explain to them,calmly, why you want to but your own clothes.
2006-08-12 12:04:10 · answer #5 · answered by jeni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you just sit down and talk to them and tell them what kinda of clothes your into mabey they will let you get it and if they don't a least you have clothes.
2006-08-12 12:41:25 · answer #6 · answered by girly000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u may not like the advice i have t give but u licve at home so they do have a say in everything yo do.. so i guess its tuff... u should ave thought about that b4 excepting the tbe top from your boyfriend.
2006-08-12 11:52:52 · answer #7 · answered by ♥PrEcIoUs♥DaYdReAmEr♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk with them and tell them that they have to respect the fact that you want to be dressed like that, since your style is ok and not ridiculus (i hope!)
2006-08-12 11:54:07 · answer #8 · answered by CREATIVE SPIRIT 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋