2006-08-12 04:40:01 · 38 answers · asked by hiddenros_81 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
YA CANT TELL YA SPANNER
2006-08-12 04:42:31 · answer #1 · answered by super b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you LOVE her then do you really think that her virginity should matter that much-You could take her to a doctor-but sometimes that virginity thing can be broken by horse back riding and in other ways-If you can't trust her then think about that for a while before considering getting married to anyone!!! You should also get checked out by a doctor!!!
2006-08-12 04:52:32 · answer #2 · answered by wancarol 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to marry her then your relationship must involve trust. Ask her if she's a virgin. Then believe what she says. There are a lot of things that can cause a woman's hyman to be broken which would make her appear not to be a virgin even if she has never engaged in sexual activity. You should really work on the trust and jealously issue before you even consider getting married.
2006-08-12 04:47:51 · answer #3 · answered by heartforhelping 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why does it bother you? If she is not will you marry her?
You marry her because you love her and not whether she is a virgin or not. I believe you should have know her well and her past and have accepted all of that before you want to marry her.
If it bothers you too much, I think you should ask her. She should be frank with you. If both of you are hiding things and cant be honest with each other, I think you better hold on to you marriage plans.
2006-08-12 04:45:44 · answer #4 · answered by Dani 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nobody can tell you that how to test and check the virginaty of a girl.there is only one thing you can test and check,with your heart because if you love her and trust her you can observe everything without doing any thing.
2006-08-12 05:07:15 · answer #5 · answered by NADEEM AMIR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its called asking her! If you don't believe her then what kind of trusting relationship do you have anyways. Why does it matter, she might have made a mistake in the past that doesn't make her a **** or broken. You should marry her because you love her and want to spend the rest of your life with her, not because of her past.. ITS IN THE PAST you need to be in her future.
2006-08-12 08:18:49 · answer #6 · answered by Pink B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That answer about the hymen been broken is absolute rubbish! The hymen or piece of skin covering the entrance to the vagina can be broken through use of tampons or even strenuous exercise or horse riding - and man - in THIS day and age, it shouldn't matter.
Ask her, and if you don't trust her answer, then you shouldn't get married - personally, if you ask me, you have bigger things to worry about - your spelling and grammar for a start........
2006-08-12 05:26:23 · answer #7 · answered by merciasounds 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are old fashioned, than it matter but, today, who cares. Besides, if you are willing to marry her, what does that matter anyhow? If you love enough to marry her, that is not going to make a difference or, at least, it shouldn't.
2006-08-12 04:44:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
From the religious point of view i fully understand where this is coming from.
I'm sure you can take her word for it. if in doubt ask her to go along with you to a doctor.
Take care
2006-08-12 07:33:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's impossible. Please don't tell me about the breaking of the 'hyman'. That doesn't always happen.
I think you're a dumb *** for asking this question! But if you really what to 'test' and 'check' the viginity of a girl, send her to my house!
2006-08-12 04:44:32 · answer #10 · answered by DapperDan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why? is this a fixed marrage.If you dont love the girl for who and what she is then dont get married.
2006-08-12 04:50:46 · answer #11 · answered by angelo26 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋