b/c everyone tells me it dosent and stuff like that. But i wana know .
2006-08-12 04:30:44 · 25 answers · asked by Candy^_^ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
wait until marraige. It's worth the wait.
2006-08-12 04:32:52 · answer #1 · answered by ahaigetit 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES it hurts and if you are thinking about having sex please make sure that you are doing it for the right reasons dont do it just to be popular you have all the time in this world dont let someone talk you into doing something you will feel bad about later you cant change it once its done . its not a bargaining tool either. IT is something most precious dontg take that step unless you look deep before you LEAP
2006-08-12 04:37:40 · answer #2 · answered by Cheryl T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can hurt, yeah. Usually, the first time you have sex will tear your hymen, which is a thin membrane in the entrance to your vagina. Sometimes the hymen can be thick, causing more pain and bleeding, but it should only last for a few moments.
Sometimes, of course, you can tear you hymen though other activities, such as bike riding, gymnastics, and horseback riding, so sex doesn't hurt at all the first time (it didn't for me).
2006-08-12 04:37:45 · answer #3 · answered by Not Allie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are several factors to consider.
Usually the first time, you are sooo nervous & concerned, like what am I doing?! Is he enjoying it? Am I doing this right?
There may not be sufficiant lubrication, your muscles may be tense.... The first time is rarely THE BEST.
They key is to take it slowly; don't rush. Enjoy each stage of the process. When your guy goes to insert his penis, have him ease in, little by little. This will allow the vaginal muscles to expand slowly. After your vagina is able to accept all of your partner then the action can begin. :) You may be slightly tender the next day...but that is all.
2006-08-12 04:56:10 · answer #4 · answered by weddrev 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it varys, yes there will be disomfort, a slight burning sensation that lasts briefly!!
the more sexually aroused you are the less the intial pain will be, if your truly concerend then go to the drug store and buy some lubrication to help you and your boyfriend make it as easy for you as possible!.
don't make it a horrible thing for you, lots of things hurt, stubbing your toe is painful, cutting your finger is painful, falling down is painful...do you see where im going? please don't stress yourself with imagined Pain, expect that there will be some, and then it won't happen like that again. so Relax and enjoy yourself...you may not Orgasm the first time but you will.
2006-08-12 04:47:52 · answer #5 · answered by SirenSings 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi..I can understand the level of curiosity u have..its very common . Few say it hurts but few say it doesn't..but most of the times it does hurt cuz its the very first time one is doing it. Most of them have pre concieved notions and imagine as if it is hurting them....Its all in ur mind!! Just make sure ur guy takes utmost care whil eperforming it for the first time!! No pain No gain!! Good luck!
2006-08-12 04:37:25 · answer #6 · answered by smashbabe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For one, by your spelling, I can tell that you are WAY to young to even be asking that question. First focus on learning how to clean yourself properly, get your head in the books, and wait until marriage. It's not all that it's cracked up to be. It'll be worth the wait when you give yourself COMPLETELY to that one guy. I wish I had waited.
2006-08-12 04:37:25 · answer #7 · answered by Boricua 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For a guy, it does not. For a girl, it might but, most of the time, if the guy knows what he is doing, it will not hurt. But, he's gota be gentle and think about you rather than being selfish.
2006-08-12 04:33:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-04 10:39:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the guy doesnt have a clue as to what hes doing, then yes, it can. but if he does, itll still hurt a little bit, and it wont feel good until the 2nd or 3rd time.
2006-08-12 04:34:04 · answer #10 · answered by Dope boy magic 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes if the 1st time mabe up till 5th time but if they are understandig and go slow and stop when u say it then it will get better.
2006-08-12 04:34:23 · answer #11 · answered by gxsilver1 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋