My friend does drugs and i dont want to be her friend anymore because of it. she hasn't asked me to smoke some pot yet, and im afraid she will! i dont know what to do because she keeps calling me and i just dont answer. what should i tell her next time she calls?
2006-08-12 04:28:46 · 10 answers · asked by bam chicka wa wa ;] 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Honest is the best policy, and it may do her good to tell her the truth. That you don't want to hang around with someone who takes drugs.
Your right to not want to hang around with her anymore. I work in a residential rehab with addicts of drugs and alcohol, and these substances have ruined people's lives. Tell your friend that some people are more prone than others to addiction. Once it has you hooked, your life is ruined .... The people I work with have lost their families, possessions, and self esteem, just to name a few.
You will do well not to be involved with her.
2006-08-12 04:54:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you drop her as a friend (unless that's what you really want to do) I'd talk to her. Next time she calls, pick up and if (when) she asks where you have been, calmly bring up the subject of her drug use. Smoking pot can lead to harder more dangerous drugs later on, so you should talk to her about it and see why she's acting out in this way. Is she having trouble at home? Is she depressed? Does she want attention? Talk to a trusted adult, too. Anything to help your friend. Be prepared for her to get angry and not want to talk to you if you confront an adult/her about it...
On the other hand, if you just don't want to be her friend anymore, tell her that it seems like you two have grown apart and you should take a break in the friendship. Maybe she'll come around. Good luck.
2006-08-12 04:37:56 · answer #2 · answered by spuget 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she asks you to smoke pot, she won't really care if you don't want to. The way she sees it, more for her! If you like her as friend, then you should keep up your relationship with her as friends. If you think that the drugs are affecting her personality negatively and if you feel as if she is no longer as much of a friend to you, then maybe you should tone down on how much you hang out with her. If you're always "busy" when she wants do something, then eventually she'll stop trying and turn to more drugs or other friends. You just have to decide whether or not the drugs are affecting your view of her and changing her personality for the worse. In the end, I cannot choose for you, but I can give you some options. Good luck.
2006-08-12 04:41:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her that you cannot be around her when she is drunk or stoned and to never ask you to do it! She will probably get angry at you at first, but later on she may thank you for standing up to her because she is hurting herself and you cared enough to point it out to her. Make sure you do tell her that she is hurting herself, though.
I commend you for not smoking pot it is bad!!! I know this from experience so please don't listen to the first answer. Marijuana only leads to bigger drugs. My ex finance started with pot and now is one huge heroin addict. Tell your friend this story, please!
2006-08-12 04:33:06 · answer #4 · answered by Elizabeth S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They in all probability get them for their pals and do them mutually. Drug addicts usually do drugs in communities, and that they generally have a drug squadron of like 4-12 human beings. 2 of them are generally drug sellers. relies upon on the drug they prefer nevertheless.
2016-09-29 04:47:09 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you guys are in different places in your life and you don't want to be a part of what she does..therefore it would be best if you guys part ways. If she asks for details...tell her how you feel about drug use in general. Just be honest...you are doing the right thing.
2006-08-12 04:36:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's your friend... and she askes you and you say no she should accept that... If you really want to lose a friend, go ahead and ditch her... or you can talk to her about it.. and how the pot is affect your friendship and that it's scaring you
2006-08-12 04:39:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to tell her that while she's taking drugs, you are not her friend. You should ideally tell her that when she's not high so she will remember what you told her.
2006-08-12 04:39:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her know the risks involved with being friends with a drug user and that you are not willing to take those risks.
2006-08-12 04:34:31 · answer #9 · answered by norwood 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her you don't want to smoke any pot. trust me, she won't care. if you don't want to smoke pot, then you shouldn't, but it's not as bad as you're making it seem.
2006-08-12 04:32:31 · answer #10 · answered by list 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋