I have feelings for my bestfriend what should I do???
2006-08-12 03:58:51 · 13 answers · asked by sweetblue 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Tell him how you feel. But don't pour it all out at once. Drop little hints here and there to build it up and see if he likes you too, but is too afraid to show it. If you feel that he doesn't have anything there for you, back off ! Because if you let him know that you like him and he doesn't mean the same of you, it could mean a BIG change in your friendship.
2006-08-12 04:05:12 · answer #1 · answered by Erin the ROCKSTAR! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
falling in love with your best friend is a fifty fifty thing, I find that if it's something that you both feel for each other you couldn't find a better person to spend the rest of your life with. On the other hand if it don't work out you could have just lost your best friend, and in that case you don't need friends that don't stand by you through the good and the bad. Talk to your friend and start from there, you can't go wrong with just talking about it...
2006-08-12 04:12:42 · answer #2 · answered by Nick B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u have feelings for ur bestfriend just try to find tht is it love or mere attraction.bcoz if anythin goes wrong the gap created btwn u two will take a long span of time to fill in.
so think abt it.
2006-08-12 04:04:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all,there is no law against falling for your bestfriend,regardless of whether its a girl or Boy.Just be honest with your feelings.tell your friend how you really feel,and hope that he/she understands what you are going through.
I cant give you any details regarding the approach you must take,because i dont know what kind of feelings those are.So,GOOG LUCK!
2006-08-12 04:03:31 · answer #4 · answered by Mrknowitall 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've heard that when best freinds fall inlove the relationship can get ruin. So I don't know what to say but to keep it to yourself if you want to keep the freindship.
2006-08-12 04:05:08 · answer #5 · answered by kookie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are drowning in your own hormones. I'd do a reality check if I were you. You are having a problem separating lust with love.
2006-08-12 04:03:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep on as you have before. God will find a time and circumstance to bring you closer together as you wish.
2006-08-12 04:05:17 · answer #7 · answered by Answers1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk.Its the only solution
2006-08-12 04:03:08 · answer #8 · answered by ZxssxZ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be yourself be brave go ahead and by soft voice say to him ILOVE YOU he well ander stand and tell him your fellings besid him
2006-08-12 04:03:08 · answer #9 · answered by amaja_92 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give some more time to ur relation,everything will b water transparent clear.
2006-08-12 04:01:49 · answer #10 · answered by silentlove 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋