We had a huge fight 4 days ago (I initiated it and said some very harsh things). He hasn't called me since and my pride won't let me call him. I miss him but it seems like this is it. What do I do?
HELP
2006-08-12 03:38:24 · 12 answers · asked by angella 2 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Horoscopes
Personally as an Aries who has been in a 3 year relationship with a Libra I can tell you this... Whatever you did/said must have been pretty bad because in my expereince Libras will put up with a lot until you hit their extremely high breaking point. Go find him and apologize, face to face, and let him know what an *** you were. Be completely honest with him. Libras I've found, (at least my Libra), can be very forgiving, if you can make them believe in you. From one Aries to another, try, try , try, to control your mouth in the future. It will be hard but you'll be happier for it in the long run.
2006-08-12 15:22:20 · answer #1 · answered by CloverGirl117 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
When Aries and Libra come together in a love affair, the inherent polarity of the Zodiac is invoked. Aries and Libra are directly opposite one another in the Zodiac -- 180 degrees apart. Each Sign possesses qualities that the other lacks; combined with Libra's natural yen for harmony, this can be a relationship that enjoys great balance. Aries is the Sign of Self while Libra is the Sign of Partnership, and the differences continue: Aries is impulsive, excitable and ready to jump right into something new and exciting, while Libra is indecisive, peace-loving and prefers a calm, smooth approach. Aries can learn from Libra that their own way isn't necessarily the best way. These two Signs share the great sexual attraction common to all Signs opposite in polarity. At the same time, though this pair's connection is amazing when it's good, it can be extremely challenging when it's bad. All polarities have energies that tend to tangle or knot if understandings can't be reached. As a combination, Aries and Libra are well-balanced. Charming, cultured Libra can teach brash Aries something about style. Libra prizes harmony in a relationship and will go to great lengths to maintain it. Aries is very decisive and can teach indecisive Libra about relying on intuition for answers. Aries is ruled by the Planet Mars and Libra is ruled by the Planet Venus. This is a great match, as these are the Planets of Passion and Love, respectively. Venus and Mars go well together as they're the two sides of the love relationship coin. They're universally recognized as male and female and this relationship is a good balance of masculine and feminine energy. Venus is about the beauty of romance while Mars is about the passion of romance. What a good combination! Aries is a Fire Sign and Libra is an Air Sign. Air fuels Fire and helps it grow and spread. Aries can have a very positive effect on Libra's growth, ideas and progress; Aries can help Libra put their ideas into action. Working together can be challenging at times, however, due to their polarity. Aries's fast-paced, impetuous approach to projects may conflict with Libra's more balanced, intellectual approach. However, both Signs have wide-ranging interests, and at the end of a long, active day, Aries can come home full of interesting stories to tell the more cerebral Libra! Aries and Libra are both Cardinal Signs. They both have a lot of initiative -- but lack in follow-through. They both tend to start things they're never going to finish, whether it's a job, a project, a relationship ... Aries will appear to be the leader because of their energy and forceful nature, but Libra leads from an intellectual standpoint. Both Signs want to be in charge, but Aries uses force and sometimes intimidation to get what they want while Libra uses charm and sometimes manipulation. Compromise is essential to this relationship's health. Diplomatic Libra has a much easier time with compromise than does Aries, who strongly dislikes yielding to another person, viewing it as submission. Libra may have to give in more often to Aries's wishes in order to keep the peace that they so cherish. What's the best aspect of the Aries-Libra relationship? The harmony resulting from the union of Venus and Mars. The balance between self and other represented by this polarity is a great learning experience for both Signs. Each brings to the relationship what the other is missing, making for a wonderful balance.
Love & Blessings
Milly
2006-08-12 04:14:01 · answer #2 · answered by milly_1963 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Let it go- it won't work... I'm a libra and my EX was an aries... it was a horrible relationship.
He was abusive and always wanted a fight, and I was too stupid to see it from the start.
At the end he said some horrible things (like I wish you'd die a horrible and painfull death) and other immature things....
Aries + Libra = Nothing but trouble.
2006-08-12 10:13:16 · answer #3 · answered by ~Michelle~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems that this is not a questions of signs. First you should figure out why you started the fight, then you should ask youself what you really feel for him and even if you come to the conclusion that you don't want to be together with him. You should call him and settle the matter. Pride can sometimes really be a hindrance....
2006-08-12 04:22:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reason you attract Libra at this point in your life, you need to learn to compromise. Thing is, Aries says and does things and forgets about it. It's said, done, and over with. Libra doesn't. They just keep thinking and thinking, and weighing every move they make. That's what attracts them to you:They don't have the balls to do things alone. Leave him alone.. it'll drive him crazy, because he won't know what to do with himself without somebody to babysit him.
2006-08-12 16:25:09 · answer #5 · answered by mhiaa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
even if ur pride dont let u still call him and say sorry and say u didnt mean to say the harsh things and hope his feelings werent hurt much.then ask him if he forgives u.
2006-08-12 04:08:30 · answer #6 · answered by lollerskates 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey dont worry. if u no his email ad then tell me cause i no a great web with cool greeting cards. or try and say sorry another way. mend your ways. if u are destined to be with him then things will sure be fine. i am sure it isnt over. i checked ur compatibility and it says it could be one way or another. you might be together or not. try and say u r sorry and I really hope everything is fine. its not about your signs its about your realation with him.
2006-08-12 04:34:04 · answer #7 · answered by preity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you still want you should call him and tell him that you still have feelings for him and that you don't want to let him go
2006-08-12 03:58:29 · answer #8 · answered by Danae R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not bother with you. You are too much trouble. Find someone else so you can continue your bi**h training.
2006-08-12 04:03:08 · answer #9 · answered by thebushman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a control on your anger! If I were him I would never talk to you again.
2006-08-12 03:44:22 · answer #10 · answered by Mark F 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋